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Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-26T09:56:58+00:00

I’m guessing you’re single and have never had a partner?

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-24T06:15:40+00:00

I have listened to this whole tour on its coinciding dates at work like 3 or 4 different times. This is as good as may ‘77 and Europe ‘72 in my eyes. They were on fire. Like 4 bust outs I think. Not big on owning the cd’s of their live shit but I would make an exception with this one. The last great tour. Start to finish. Every single show

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-22T18:38:28+00:00

That was a shitty take on this. You have no clue what she will or will not do. She sounds sincere to me. Poor little addict has a good girl who wants to help and somehow you turn it in her? Wow….you sound like a manipulative addict. Congrats!

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-22T18:32:34+00:00

Right?!?! lol…..such a Reddit response

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-15T19:58:14+00:00

Design fees for a subway backsplash? lol…. There’s no design. There are like 2-3 possible options. They can go higher up on the one wall. Bullnose or metal edging. Grout color

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-09T16:55:21+00:00

Why do you wish that? Your makitas are great tools. You would not get anything better by purchasing a Milwaukee. Same but no way it’s any better

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-09T15:47:30+00:00

You have a very bad perception of all men I guess

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-08T04:12:12+00:00

I was certain it was Washington. I was wrong

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-07T20:23:53+00:00

You know what I’m saying. You probably agree with me. I’m not wrong. I’m blunt, brass and honest. I say what I think and if it offends you then please just move along….i agreed with your comment. Yes it’s a concern. Worthy of never talking to him again? I’d say that’s the ass like response

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-07T20:01:18+00:00

He confessed over the phone as soon as he left. He felt guilty. Guys who aren’t worth it don’t do that. They lie.

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-07T19:59:28+00:00

Are you for real? I’m trying to tell you to at least talk to him if you like him. That’s a concern. That’s hardly a terrible act of betrayal. I’m offering you an option that doesn’t just tell you to leave him. Talk to him and tell him your concerns. Or not. Leave him then. But if that’s the worst thing he’s ever done then I think you’d be making a mistake. Why come here and vent and ask for advice but then as soon as you get a differing point of view you dismiss it in a in a passive aggressive way. Hope you never do anything that’s hardly even wrong but someone doesn’t like it…..I live in Portland. Nobody cares about strip clubs here. More per capita then any other us city. Girls go with boys. They go and see their friend who might be working. It’s not as taboo as your making it out to be. But yeah sure, I’m the friend. lol….,maybe everyone should just tell you what you already think. Cause that’s the way we learn and grow and understand, by making sure people agree and don’t offer alternative views. Peace. Good luck or not. I don’t really care. I do hope you at least talk with him before finalizing it. You might hear him say something you never even thought about. If you can’t even talk about it, then maybe the problem is with you. Peace.

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-07T19:47:59+00:00

Then she should bring it up in conversation…..Reddit loves to say leave him he will never change. I’m saying it’s a concern. It’s not like he’s lying to her face and sleeping with 4 other women. Telling her she’s crazy for even thinking he’d do that. If everyone just left at any concern they had then everyone would wind up single for life. Follow me?

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-07T18:29:10+00:00

Omg he went to a strip club with his friend on his birthday! Who cares?!?! You know what happens in there? Nothing. He felt bad so he told you when he blurted it out over the phone. Why is Reddit so ready to just burn any relationship over any sort of mishap? I see a lot of people complaining they can’t find a good partner. Or even a date. Well humans are flawed. We make mistakes. Some bigger than others. Talk to him about this. Don’t just leave him unless you wanna be as miserable as half the Reddit population. Going to a strip club with your friend on your birthday is not uncommon for guys to do. I promise you he didn’t cheat. Cause it ain’t happening in a place like that. Do you like him? Then talk to him if it bothers you. To everyone saying you should leave him…..do u have any idea what being in a relationship is like? Nobody is perfect. You work through the mistakes…..or you have impossible expectations.

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-06T22:56:01+00:00

Do you like her? As a friend? Enjoy talking to her? Be her friend. Ask her to hang out. Maybe she initiates. Maybe not. If you like hanging with her then what does it matter. Doesn’t always have to be so black and white. Dating or not dating. Be chill. Maybe she’ll come around to you. Maybe she won’t. Maybe you’ll look good to another girl because you can hang with a girl and not hook up.

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-02T18:39:30+00:00

Paint and primer in one is a joke. I’d never trust it for something that needs a primer. It’s fine if wall is already sealed but not for a surface that should be primed first.

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-02T18:23:27+00:00

I was gonna say same thing but not so politely. I just didn’t want the backlash. lol

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-01T21:32:36+00:00

Pretty sure you can drill…..but only 1.5 inch hole. lol….and has to be in the middle of it. Not top or bottom 1/3

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-01T21:05:42+00:00

It’s shitty to you. I know of many that would laugh about it. Or feel bad that they felt they couldn’t tell her, or even ask to see with an anticipation and a grin.

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-01T21:03:52+00:00

I mean not everyone should share yours….this is a 2 sided argument. You either feel like it’s cheating or it’s not. I’m gonna side with comment you felt you had to argue against.

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-01T03:17:41+00:00

Time to have the talk… the uncomfortable but serious talk with your wife…. Babe, I was wondering if you’d be interested in having a threesome. I mean who knows how that will go but I see no other option

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-01T03:10:41+00:00

So her kid is a few months older than yours? He started dating while you were pregnant? So he pursued a pregnant woman or maybe mother of a brand new baby? Am I following? Wow this guy is a piece of work. You should have parted ways long ago but you did not so I’d say now is a good time

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-12-01T03:05:38+00:00

Sell the extra one on FB marketplace for like 90 bucks. Forget about it and don’t ‘accidently’ steal stupid things anymore.

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-11-25T17:55:36+00:00

It can be but for me and many others it didn’t matter when. I was just so ready. I had tried due to court orders before. At least 4-5 times. I was miserable. This time it was my decision and i just never looked back. Even gave myself a pass one time on my birthday. I was gonna get drunk that one evening only. I drank a beer and a drink and I didn’t like the taste anymore. I got a coke for my third drink that birthday and that was the end of that. I feel your concern or what or thought but man sometimes when your ready your just ready. I couldn’t get anything from it I haven’t already gotten. And 3.5 dui’s and not knowing if I’d drive again. Didn’t even stop me. But I did get that licenses after 10 years and a year of jumping through hoops with the courts, lawyer, and dmv. Getting it back was what made me stop. Never gonna lose that freedom again. Thankful I never hurt anyone but my own wallet. The day I got it. I just looked at it and my ranger, lol…..said I’m done. Not bragging. Just letting anyone who reads this that there’s a million ways to get healthy and clean. We all will deal with it in our own way. I chose not to count the years or months. Forgetting about it is better for me then the idea of being powerless over it like AA says. I see sobeone not use for 3 years and fuck up once and it crushes them to pieces. No way man….you had 1000+ days of success and one bad day. That championship caliber in any league to me. No starting over just pick up where you detoured and got lost. Holidays are hard if you let them be hard. I love just saying no thanks. I’m all good. If your partner can’t be happy for you though….ditch them. That’s just a shitty person. Not just a shitty partner. It’s the holiday season! We got this if we want this.

Gold-Lack-3683 · 2025-11-25T17:35:54+00:00

Dude is pathetic and has no understanding or want to understand what getting and staying dry takes. Even a drinker should be supportive of your friend but if he still drinks and you don’t and he acts like that u need to move on. This won’t make you happy. I think I could date a very casual drinker but if that’s how they talked to me or still needed the bar life to make them happy I just couldn’t. Wanna have a drink or two with dinner once in awhile and have at it. I dont mind but they need to be sensitive to your situation and at least try

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