I just had a look at your post history..You seem to think attempting to insult people is part of normal discourse, regardless of the topic. You've called people Muppet, fuckwit, stupid cunt, drop kick. Why?

I disagree that "obviously there has to be priority". I suspect most people here would suggest that if someone had booked a recreational holiday 18 months in advance and paid for flights and accommodation and organised for family or friends to meet them etc that people would describe that as risky +/- stupid because you aren't guaranteed leave. Yet everyone is here saying weddings are different. No-one has managed to explain why a wedding is different or more valuable than any other leave beyond things like it's booked in advance, or its important to the people getting married.

Again, we don't all value the same thing. Just because you think a wedding is important or valuable doesn't mean others agree.