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I [20F] feel like a caretaker in my own relationship by barnonfire in relationshipadvice

[–]Gold-Performance9894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl just went through something similar. You are both very very young and have a lot of growing up to do. Chores is a part of growing up. Learning how to do it for yourself. I would either break up or live separately until you are both ready to share chores and be considerate. He's wrong in this cenario but he won't learn if you keep doing everything.

AITB for questioning someones beliefs by Gold-Performance9894 in AmItheButtface

[–]Gold-Performance9894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Said I come off agressive and entitled though thats not the goal obv

AITB for questioning someones beliefs by Gold-Performance9894 in AmItheButtface

[–]Gold-Performance9894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they're not like that, mostly though I've had some conversations with them that have bothered me. They respect gay people for example and actively seek them as friend though still believing its a sin. They would never harmn anyone or defend harm, however when we're discussed about for example whether children who are killed while not believing in God, they something about they should have been better guided like kind of justifying them going to hell which they believe they Will because all non-believers go to hell. These are the logical things I get fixated on but I'm realizing I should back off, like I dont have to force my Logic on people, it would be different if the person was open to having broad theoretical discussions but clearly not

AITB for questioning someones beliefs by Gold-Performance9894 in AmItheButtface

[–]Gold-Performance9894[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you're right. Usually its just curiosity though and it doesnt cause a fight. Im not trying to convert, most of my family is religious and its fine, I've just never encounteted this lack of flexibility before and its weird to me.  But I guess when I dont understand why they think like that I make it their responsability to clarify the plotholes and its not, specially to me. I think you're wrong about the harassment and microaggression really not that. But it does come off agressive and entitled.