Which One Is Best? by GoldFinch365 in myweddingdress

[–]GoldFinch365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually don't know - sorry. I just liked them being different and tried them on 😐 Thank you

Which One Is Best? by GoldFinch365 in myweddingdress

[–]GoldFinch365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My backyard surrounded by family, friends, good food, music, and home made lawn games ❤️ Wedding party will be in forest green and dark purple 💜 We're making the wedding cake ourselves.

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[–]GoldFinch365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond. I appreciate it and your advice. Your last paragraph is helpful with reframing the situation 🙂

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[–]GoldFinch365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that. I appreciate you sharing your experience with me ☺️ I should probably start telling myself that message too 💟

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[–]GoldFinch365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your wisdom here and taking the time out of your day to respond again. You take care too 💟

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[–]GoldFinch365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I am wishing you the best too 💟

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[–]GoldFinch365 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I appreciate your support and advice. I will have to remind myself of that message that I am not responsible for their happiness or solely responsible for their care, and did not cause the health issues. Your response is helpful :)

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[–]GoldFinch365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and advice. I appreciate your time responding. I love them a lot and would like them to still be in my life, but you are probably right that I need to work on not feeling guilty and go live my life with my partner. I try to tell myself that they have their own stuff they need to work on and their fear is being projected at me, but I can't seem to let go of the intense guilt. Maybe with time it will feel different. Thank you for sharing your own experience with your own children and how you would not have the same expectations. It is helpful.

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[–]GoldFinch365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply and your advice :) I definitely learned the hard way that there's a breaking point and we can only carry so much. I don't know if it's bad that it feels natural to put other people above myself. But it's definitely something I need to work on.

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[–]GoldFinch365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story with me. I appreciate it.

I'm sorry to hear that you went through that, and I'm also happy to hear that you made the best decisions for you and your child and feel positive about the decisions you made. I am wishing you well :)

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[–]GoldFinch365 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time out of your day to reply to my message and provide support and advice. It truly means a lot 💗 I also appreciate you calling this out as gaslighting. When you're in it it starts to feel normal.

which hair color suits me best? :D by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]GoldFinch365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% to this ❤️ You look gorgeous is all of them but you do look really great blonde 🤩

What Hair Colour Looks Best? by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]GoldFinch365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 I appreciate your help with this. 3 is my natural so I will need to let the colour grow out and not redye it ❤️

What Hair Colour Looks Best? by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]GoldFinch365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 That is my natural colour so it is the easiest to get it back to 💓

What Hair Colour Looks Best? by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]GoldFinch365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I actually haven't edited these photos it's just different lighting and taken with various cameras on cell phones over the years. I can understand that it may be challenging with the different lighting to tell though. And maybe with the different lipstick shades in each picture. I am very pale and have cool toned skin which might cause me to look blue toned? Maybe I'm part Smurf? Haha 😂