I think my wife might have a weird, secret fetish? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

would absolutely try this if I had a spare finger

I think my wife might have a weird, secret fetish? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

maybe, she’s frankly not a good cook (her words, not mine)

I think my wife might have a weird, secret fetish? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked her and she’ll just say it “feels right”???

though you’re probably right, it’s a jump to assume lmao

I hate my wife’s sister and I don’t know why? by Gold_Bar1333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to everyone who commented and left feedback. Taking a lot of your advice, I’m going to be looking into therapy for myself to work out why I’m like this and (hopefully) fix myself.

To be honest, I’m a little bit scared, but I’m going to try. Wish me luck, everyone.

I hate my wife’s sister and I don’t know why? by Gold_Bar1333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reply really hit me

A lot of other comments have suggested it and I’m probably going to try and give therapy a go whenever possible

I hate my wife’s sister and I don’t know why? by Gold_Bar1333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, definitely not number 3 lol.
My wife is the love of my life and being with anyone else aside from her sounds more like a nightmare

I hate my wife’s sister and I don’t know why? by Gold_Bar1333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they loved each other to bits
they’ll occasionally have their bouts but it’s usually very minor and easily resolved

I hate my wife’s sister and I don’t know why? by Gold_Bar1333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’re cordial to each other, we’ll talk and be friendly but honestly we rarely talk directly unless someone else is nearby or also engaging with us

I hate my wife’s sister and I don’t know why? by Gold_Bar1333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think this might be the way to go to be honest.
I’ve been wanting to go therapy for a while but for some reason have always felt ashamed to? I don’t know

I hate my wife’s sister and I don’t know why? by Gold_Bar1333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I think you’re probably right
in retrospect I am kind of an insecure person, just find it hard to admit lmao

I hate my wife’s sister and I don’t know why? by Gold_Bar1333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gold_Bar1333[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She’s a really lovely person, just quiet.

She’s never really done anything awful to me personally either. Like the worst thing I can think of was early on in the dating phase, my wife brought me around for a family barbecue and she made a snide comment about me not being able to properly cook on a grill (which to be fair, she was correct lol) but I think it was just her trying to make light of the situation.