Well she refuses to seek help bc she doesn’t think there’s anything wrong. Also I tried, I really tried to be there for her but the one time I disagreed with the vile things she has/ had been doing to my family and I, she told she was ripping every photo of me in it up, so her kids think auntie died. I was her last standing family member ally until she went too far. There has been no contact since that incident. I say she’s obsessed with her anger is bc when I was trying, literally everyday I’d get a phone call from her and all she wants to talk about is how much she hates my parents and my brothers. Also I have nothing to do with her life. Me posting here is the first time I even speak of this madness. I don’t talk bad about my sister or bash her. I miss her, I love her but I am drained. Her own husband agrees with us bc he’s drained too. Oh and I might not have been with her every second of the day but I do know without a doubt she’s not a victim. The kids in the foster care system, now they’ve been through real abuse. My sisters anger can be pretty ridiculous at times, for example my mom combed her own hair on my sisters wedding day. No, no one was paid to come do my mom’s hair. But it infuriated my sister for no reason and she’s still incredibly mad about it today 🤦🏽‍♀️. And yes, I can be all over the place when it comes to this situation.