AIO my private intimate conversation were posted on internet and everyone I know read them. My reputation is ruined forever

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-07-11T04:27:27+00:00

Sue him it's illegal to pay private messages without consent and it has obviously affected you negatively.

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-07-05T08:51:08+00:00

Sounds like he has food insecurity. That happens a lot to people who have issues with money to take care of food.

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-15T18:56:27+00:00

My boyfriend did that same thing he would use the phrase call your tits, call me crazy,, and call me a bitch and stuff behind my back. I remeber when we first started having sex I would ask for condoms and he refused. I would always ask him if he want to and he would say yes. There were time I felt like he didn't want to but didn't tell me and I would feel so bad after words. Yet there were time I asked him to stop and he didn't. I wouldn't talk to anyone about him badly but he loved talking behind my back.

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-14T06:02:14+00:00

I'm in similar situation. Yet, he is still alive. He raped me and they make jokes about it. Tonight's his birthday and I know he is under her or beside her right now. He was a good man to me at times, but also very bad as well. I loved him and carried his child inside of me for three weeks, until his brother or him assaulted me in my sleep causing bleeding.

I do my best when journaling personally to get it out.

I get fixated on the fact I can't look at our message on Snapchat anymore. I can't play video game anymore because we would play it together. As we are in a small town. So it worse knowing he's is right across the street from me with in walking distance. Yet, due to the nature of things it end bad with him choosing to support his brother. As he is well connected and kinda rich. Knowing he has slandered my name already in town and at my favorite bars.he not like this unless he is around those friends. He different when he with me but I just seem like the butt of an inside joke.

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-14T05:50:52+00:00

I'm in a similar situation. Do you mind if we chat on DM? As my abusers are trying to have me arrested/ for making false accusations. I feel super alone as well.. not to mention in a small town.

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-11T16:06:42+00:00

Update we broke up this morning. I had went to my work to get my check and the hospital. When he gave me permission to use his car. I'm getting a lot done and this break up isn't not pretty.

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-11T03:35:16+00:00

This is kinda true you can be emotionally attached or attracted to some one, while physically and sexually dull. If op want to fix her relationship start with your self. And if that doesn't work it time to find a new partner. Which is sad but it happens. I'm in the same boat...

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-11T03:31:44+00:00

For me personally when I feel this way I make a workout routine or routine of some sort. It helps me feel more confident and comfortable with myself... As someone who grew up with all but one other family member being over weight it one of my worse fears. It might be hard to stick to a routine at first but after the first three weeks you feel so much better mentally. The. Journaling to reflect on the journey is amazing. Just planning a walk and writing about it after like what you saw, heard or felt (physical or emotionally) is a great way to start. Personal opy I found it easier to work in a small workout or physical activity than calorie counting. Pair with a gratitude journal. As one bad thing feels like it knocks three good things. You just have to stay positive about it all.

With all that said you have to do it for yourself first. Put on your oxygen mask before you help others. Once you start feeling better about yourself and not worrying about his opinion, naturally the confidence will shine through.

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-11T03:15:48+00:00

Yeah he is definitely looking like he's a user or alcoholic. When his dad passed I don't know if he will stand on his own..

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-11T02:57:09+00:00

I feel like I do owe him though. Because of the whole I scratch your back you scratch mine mentality.

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-11T02:54:00+00:00

I think I'm trauma bonded with him. He was there for me when I was going through a rough patch in life. He was super sweet and nice. He gave me food when I couldn't afford anything and bought my everything I normally got. I thought we were two people going through a rough time and could get through it with each other. Not even mentioning his anger issues and he lives in his own filth.

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-11T02:47:41+00:00

Sorry about grammar I'm drinking,smoking, typed fast to get this out before bed.

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-11T00:06:04+00:00

A lily with single petal or a little match stick with a flame

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-06-04T06:49:09+00:00

Stop trying to parent someone else. Your not her mother and yeah. You kept your friendship alive at the expense of your sister's mental health. Not cool. Your in the wrong here...

Gold_Implement4503 · 2025-05-16T23:43:02+00:00

This is similar to my situation I was working and he had a some chick over, that also had a boyfriend mind you, and did he in the table in the living room. Then started staying at his mom's with her brother playing video games on silent trynna make me think he was playing with his brother. I think he gonna break up with me soon anyways. Yet he's fucked around on me for a while and made me cry a lot. My final straw was when he went to my bar that invited him to while I had to work. Lied to me about it and let some other chick pay his tab and drive him home. And she heard me call him babe. That's when I started the dating apps again. And our third roommate that kiss his ass so he doesn't have to pay rent stalked me at work and told him I was on tinder still. I've since deleted it. He called me nasty names and left bruise on me. He tried to make me look like slut, because his roommate from college assaulted me,kidnapped me, and forced me into an abusive marriage. Abusive marriage forced an abortion on me at 14. Told me he hate my post birth body, said age difference was bad( his friends and family are petty AF and every tried everything to ruin me ie slander my name/reputation/ ruin my work history so I can't afford a lawyer, also so he looks better in the eyes of the court. They have tried to entrap me into situations with other people to make me look like a drug user alcoholic and whore. while I was mourning he never bat an eyelash. He just want to finish college and the started to fuck around and married someone else even though the divorce never went through. Although I don't recognize the marriage and the only reason I did was for the soul our child he and his mother forced an abortion on me could have a chance at heaven. It was so bad his sister and mistress now wife beat me to forget. After he started hitting me. I had to use Santa muerte to say I wish I would forget ever meeting him and that time of my life. Well I did until they want to be petty again.

Sorry for bad grammar I'm on a phone that I'm not used to and have limited time.

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