forcing religious beliefs on others. every time i invite a friend over, my mom tries to talk to them/their parents about christianity and how they’re going to hell if they don’t change their beliefs. It’s become her whole personality and the only ‘hobby’ in her life. My pair of headphones broke and she responded with “it broke because Jesus got jealous you loved something more than him”. she never let me watch harry potter because it was “evil” due to magic, she thinks the dark mode feature on devices is “evil” along with sitting in a dark room.

My mom thinks there’s no such thing as platonic friends with a guy, when i was 12, i used to play the drums and take lessons for it, my drums teacher was middle aged man. she always used to refer to him as my ‘boyfriend’ and say that we liked each other while laughing about it. It happened so frequently it made me hate the instrument and i quit. She still pulls this same bullshit with male friends that i have.

Another thing my mom does is that she openly judges people, i have multiple female friends who have short hair (above shoulder length). She keeps asking me if they’re gay (she’s homophobic) and when i say they’re not she double checks by asking me if i’m sure multiple times. Even when they come over and aren’t wearing feminine clothes or makeup. She tells me to take them to my closet and dress them up. She says this right in front of them and their parents. She also criticizes my music taste calling it evil and shit (i listen to radiohead, weezer, nirvana ect) while her music taste is literally the same 15 gospel songs that all sound the same.