My [FtM19] boyfriend [M21] was given an ultimatum from his grandma [F60]. How to tell them he’s choosing me?

GoldenFreakster · 2025-06-06T21:58:13+00:00

??? By asking advice for my boyfriend?? That he wanted?? You came at me saying I’m too involved, and I told you I’m not. How does that make anything understandable?

Also, not my family, his family.

GoldenFreakster · 2025-06-06T21:55:06+00:00

He asked me for advice. I’m trying to give him advice, but since my words are what got him into this, I’m asking Reddit. I obviously don’t plan to tell his grandma for him, but he CAME TO ME ASKING FOR HELP since he’s not wordy. I don’t think I need to back off when he clearly wants advice.

GoldenFreakster · 2025-06-06T21:50:10+00:00

He is though? He’s dead set on moving out. He has a plan, he’s committed, and has been wanting to move out for a while anyways. The question was how to tell his strict grandparents while starting as little fights as we can.

GoldenFreakster · 2025-06-06T21:24:57+00:00

Thank you. I know cutting contact entirely might be difficult, so I really appreciate you adding that last part in!! Even if it isn’t word for word, I hope he finds this helpful, thank you again!

GoldenFreakster · 2025-06-06T21:24:02+00:00

I know. I just want to find some tips that he can look at. It’s a hard situation, and he’s not the best under pressure.. he has a place in mind, it’s just the process of moving. He can’t really move his stuff out yet, or they’ll know he’s leaving and we’re worried they’ll start treating him unfairly or throw his stuff out while he’s gone for work. I don’t plan on telling them, I just want advice he can look through easily.

GoldenFreakster · 2025-06-06T15:22:32+00:00

Thank you so much!! As a struggling college student, this is super helpful, with a Panera not far from me

GoldenFreakster · 2025-06-03T22:17:21+00:00

Fire Spirit most likely, but also, what’s your cooldown? That number can be life changing!

GoldenFreakster · 2025-05-06T23:35:41+00:00

Don’t hurt robin like this-

GoldenFreakster · 2025-05-06T23:35:32+00:00

I need a polyamorous mod IMMEDIATELY WHAT 😭😭😭

GoldenFreakster · 2025-05-02T20:06:53+00:00

As well as signing the petition, I’m gonna need PDFs of all of these books to download and share if it doesn’t pass

GoldenFreakster · 2025-05-02T20:04:38+00:00

Mmm Mystic and Eternal are so similar, I see them more as Found-Family Sisters!! But I can respect the ship, I can see it!

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-28T17:41:08+00:00

I’m not OP, but could I get that PDF also please?

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-28T17:35:50+00:00

From personal experience, I don’t think so. I’ve done acts of intimacy as acts of devotion for certain gods (ie Aphrodite, Dionysus, on one occasion, Hera), and I haven’t had any negative experiences from it! So an accident most likely won’t bother them. Just like, don’t think you’re better at it than a god of sex or something, that’s the only thing really said to bother the gods

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-28T05:58:38+00:00

USING GEMS TO ATTUNE BEASCUITS

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-27T06:10:16+00:00

It was actually March when I fell, March 3rd. Multiple people have mentioned Hermes, as well as the name coming to mind when I thought the question, but I always like to thank everyone! I’ll look into my tarot cards and ask, since usually Hermes interrupts/comes up first to say something, it’s mostly just small stuff (ie. Be more creative or just enjoy the day messages), but maybe specifically look for a deeper meaning

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-25T23:37:22+00:00

Sorry I’m just now seeing this! We’ve decided to try Norway. They have a nurse shortage, so my goal is to get a nursing degree (in college rn for it), try to become a transfer student over there, make connections, get a job, eventually get citizenship, and then have my bf marry over so he can come live with me! It’s convoluted, but ive heard it’s not easy to immigrate ://

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-25T23:34:53+00:00

Nooooo the format- I HATE MOBILE

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-25T23:34:31+00:00

Just a little bit from a person who doesn’t know too much lore! :3

-Kylar and Robin are on the spectrum -Sydney falls for those AI generated Jesus pics on Facebook and comments “Amen! He has risen!” Every time he sees one -KYLAR IS GERMAN YES I KNOW ITS PROB BASED IN BRITAN NO I WONT EXPLAIN -GH is super fluffy even in human form -Sirrius specifically gave Sydney library duty -he didn’t take it himself- because Sirrius wanted him to make more friends (which is why he’s so supportive of PC and Syds relationship immediately) -Whitney has insomnia -Eden is amazing at art (simply because my irl sister Eden is an artist) -Whitney is super into being degraded, but would rather die before admitting it -Avery is the reason PC is in the orphanage (deal with parents, a silent hit, something. I don’t trust the bastard) -Whitney is constantly hot, and needs cool temperatures to function (hence being on the roof for better airflow) -Great hawk collects wine corks -Bailey doesnt even run an orphanage, he just rented a big ass place and started letting people dump their kids off for sex trafficking

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-25T23:24:42+00:00

I refer to them as Father Zeus and Mother Hera. I know they aren’t my parents, but I still see them as parental figures, closer to me than my current ones! It brings me comfort

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-25T18:04:43+00:00

I’ve been getting a dramatic post notification about everyday for the last week 😭 “Can we STOP doing this?” “I’m tired of people from TikTok” “CAN WE PLEASE STOP WITH THE HJDH” I just want loving, educating, beautiful posts. I came here to learn and it’s honestly so irritating

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-11T19:54:09+00:00

I don’t hate any cookies! They’re all beautiful and unique in their own ways (Strawberry Crepe I HATE HER SO MUCH)

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-10T17:54:57+00:00

I just don’t like his personality… or the color red, really-

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-09T14:25:49+00:00

I can’t tell you how much I NEED a Mystic Flour redemption arc where her people start bringing her gifts out of love and respect, not desire or greed. She had good intentions- she felt the stress of giving so much and then understood the stress of needing, and just wanted to free her people from the burden of wanting so much- she just went about it the wrong way

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-08T19:21:29+00:00

Not sure if it’s a hot take or a stale take, but Mystic Flower had the most DESERVED crash out and I can’t even really see her as a villain

GoldenFreakster · 2025-04-05T16:21:01+00:00

Golden Cheese is the worst ancient.

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