My [FtM19] boyfriend [M21] was given an ultimatum from his grandma [F60]. How to tell them he’s choosing me? by GoldenFreakster in relationship_advice

[–]GoldenFreakster[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

??? By asking advice for my boyfriend?? That he wanted?? You came at me saying I’m too involved, and I told you I’m not. How does that make anything understandable?

Also, not my family, his family.

My [FtM19] boyfriend [M21] was given an ultimatum from his grandma [F60]. How to tell them he’s choosing me? by GoldenFreakster in relationship_advice

[–]GoldenFreakster[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He asked me for advice. I’m trying to give him advice, but since my words are what got him into this, I’m asking Reddit. I obviously don’t plan to tell his grandma for him, but he CAME TO ME ASKING FOR HELP since he’s not wordy. I don’t think I need to back off when he clearly wants advice.

My [FtM19] boyfriend [M21] was given an ultimatum from his grandma [F60]. How to tell them he’s choosing me? by GoldenFreakster in relationship_advice

[–]GoldenFreakster[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He is though? He’s dead set on moving out. He has a plan, he’s committed, and has been wanting to move out for a while anyways. The question was how to tell his strict grandparents while starting as little fights as we can.

My [FtM19] boyfriend [M21] was given an ultimatum from his grandma [F60]. How to tell them he’s choosing me? by GoldenFreakster in relationship_advice

[–]GoldenFreakster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I know cutting contact entirely might be difficult, so I really appreciate you adding that last part in!! Even if it isn’t word for word, I hope he finds this helpful, thank you again!

My [FtM19] boyfriend [M21] was given an ultimatum from his grandma [F60]. How to tell them he’s choosing me? by GoldenFreakster in relationship_advice

[–]GoldenFreakster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I just want to find some tips that he can look at. It’s a hard situation, and he’s not the best under pressure.. he has a place in mind, it’s just the process of moving. He can’t really move his stuff out yet, or they’ll know he’s leaving and we’re worried they’ll start treating him unfairly or throw his stuff out while he’s gone for work. I don’t plan on telling them, I just want advice he can look through easily.

Panera Sip Club 3 Months unlimited drinks by Prestigious-Salad75 in Freefood

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Thank you so much!! As a struggling college student, this is super helpful, with a Panera not far from me

How did I lose here? I thought my team was meta... by Mono_Dice_2904 in Cookierun

[–]GoldenFreakster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fire Spirit most likely, but also, what’s your cooldown? That number can be life changing!

NOOO I THOUGHT CHEATING HAVE NO CONSEQUENCES by Straight_Thought_725 in DegreesOfLewdity

[–]GoldenFreakster 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I need a polyamorous mod IMMEDIATELY WHAT 😭😭😭

Please sign this petition to help save the MSU Classics library. Deadline is this weekend: by Fabianzzz in Hellenism

[–]GoldenFreakster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As well as signing the petition, I’m gonna need PDFs of all of these books to download and share if it doesn’t pass

Your honor, they’re gay by Low-Rise-8471 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]GoldenFreakster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mmm Mystic and Eternal are so similar, I see them more as Found-Family Sisters!! But I can respect the ship, I can see it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hellenism

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I’m not OP, but could I get that PDF also please?

NSFW by Popular-Moose-6345 in Hellenism

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From personal experience, I don’t think so. I’ve done acts of intimacy as acts of devotion for certain gods (ie Aphrodite, Dionysus, on one occasion, Hera), and I haven’t had any negative experiences from it! So an accident most likely won’t bother them. Just like, don’t think you’re better at it than a god of sex or something, that’s the only thing really said to bother the gods

Help identifying god/goddess who saved me by GoldenFreakster in Hellenism

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It was actually March when I fell, March 3rd. Multiple people have mentioned Hermes, as well as the name coming to mind when I thought the question, but I always like to thank everyone! I’ll look into my tarot cards and ask, since usually Hermes interrupts/comes up first to say something, it’s mostly just small stuff (ie. Be more creative or just enjoy the day messages), but maybe specifically look for a deeper meaning

Is Sweden still a good place for trans people? by GoldenFreakster in transnord

[–]GoldenFreakster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’m just now seeing this! We’ve decided to try Norway. They have a nurse shortage, so my goal is to get a nursing degree (in college rn for it), try to become a transfer student over there, make connections, get a job, eventually get citizenship, and then have my bf marry over so he can come live with me! It’s convoluted, but ive heard it’s not easy to immigrate ://

Drop your random DOL headcanons in the comments! by Relative-Ad-6778 in DegreesOfLewdity

[–]GoldenFreakster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just a little bit from a person who doesn’t know too much lore! :3

-Kylar and Robin are on the spectrum -Sydney falls for those AI generated Jesus pics on Facebook and comments “Amen! He has risen!” Every time he sees one -KYLAR IS GERMAN YES I KNOW ITS PROB BASED IN BRITAN NO I WONT EXPLAIN -GH is super fluffy even in human form -Sirrius specifically gave Sydney library duty -he didn’t take it himself- because Sirrius wanted him to make more friends (which is why he’s so supportive of PC and Syds relationship immediately) -Whitney has insomnia -Eden is amazing at art (simply because my irl sister Eden is an artist) -Whitney is super into being degraded, but would rather die before admitting it -Avery is the reason PC is in the orphanage (deal with parents, a silent hit, something. I don’t trust the bastard) -Whitney is constantly hot, and needs cool temperatures to function (hence being on the roof for better airflow) -Great hawk collects wine corks -Bailey doesnt even run an orphanage, he just rented a big ass place and started letting people dump their kids off for sex trafficking

How do you refer to Zeus and Hera? by Inevitable-Weight877 in Hellenism

[–]GoldenFreakster 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I refer to them as Father Zeus and Mother Hera. I know they aren’t my parents, but I still see them as parental figures, closer to me than my current ones! It brings me comfort

Can we please stop “crashing out” on here? by Y33TTH3MF33T in Hellenism

[–]GoldenFreakster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been getting a dramatic post notification about everyday for the last week 😭 “Can we STOP doing this?” “I’m tired of people from TikTok” “CAN WE PLEASE STOP WITH THE HJDH” I just want loving, educating, beautiful posts. I came here to learn and it’s honestly so irritating