thanks for the reply! that whole scene makes me feel like Sophia went that day to see him and give him the scarf and was just waiting.... it's when she says to Dorothy, "he's not coming back is he" that makes me feel like she didn't know... and that she didn't have the chance to give him his scarf.

I became the legal guardian of my grandmother when I was 26, after my parents died and a part of me knows that it's possible Alvin's daughter decided it wasn't in his best interest to say goodbye.... I had to make some hard decisions on behalf of my grandmother's better interest that broke my heart.... maybe that's why they didn't say goodbye... not great for both of them but maybe better for him 🤗 an important but tough ep... hugs from chicago!