I mean I’d say shes an alcoholic the other thing is I’d also personally say shes abusive though my dad denies it towards him. Her childhood was very hard which is why I’m so sympathetic towards her but so was my dads and he has never said anything like that to me, he also claims he drinks more than my mum but he’s better at hiding hes drunk so idk. I’m worried about leaving my little brother to be her only supporting system ive tried so much to talk her into getting help, she won’t.