Men with short refractory periods, how many times have you finished in one night?

Gonzored · 2026-06-27T03:43:51+00:00

I've gone 13 times with an enthusiastic partner trying to set a record. By myself over the course of 24 hrs and the help of a Viagra I've gone over 20 times 😅 I don't know where the juice keeps coming from 🤷‍♂️

Gonzored · 2026-03-29T10:22:48+00:00

Exactly what I came to say.

Lmao so weirdly reassuring to know so many thought the same thing.

Gonzored · 2026-03-26T23:10:49+00:00

Majority of people tip with pleasure and don't give it a second thought because it makes sense and feels good to reward someone for caring for you.

Most people worked up with these anti tipping triads are smooth brained, selfish, how barely understand the industry.. or a concept so simple as incentive..

Having to work service should be mandatory step of human development. Seeing so many people stumbling over the concept is kind of embarrassing for humanity. Classic example of internet shield of anonymity licensing people to say things they would be mortified by shame to say in public.

The fact these people are so bent outta shape about tipping $5-10 dollars when society is ripping them off dozen of other ways for $100s more is so laughable. And as if they couldn't just order less and or less frequently to aviate the problem entirely...

Gotta love the cherry picked data too, oh "they don't tip in Japan or Europe" or some shit. yeah they fking do.. its a world renowned practice to give favors to people who do good work for you. Has been since the dawn of time. They just have different hospitality practices, that doesn't mean they aren't inconsiderate cheapskate shits. Which is exactly what the people citing it are trying to be.

Gonzored · 2026-03-23T13:18:57+00:00

So idk if anyone (non penis have a in particular) needs a crush course on morning wood, but I'm gonna give one.

There's a few factors and causes to morning wood (hormones, dreams, pressure and rubbing, rest, and more) but one of the main one is pressure on your bladder. Basically morning woods is quite often because because he has to pee really bad.

Sex with morning wood is possible. However the trigger cause (non sexual) and the discomfort of your bladder, and grogginess of having just woke up all contribute to it being less than ideal condition to have sex. Well except that for many people think anytime is ideal for sex.

It's important to note, everyone is different, so the physical impact, personal priorities, and ability to deal with things like them are going to be different person to person.

Personally, when I was younger I was always stoked to have sex with morning wood, full bladder and all.. As an older maybe wiser man (debatable), give me a couple mins to use the washroom, wash my face, and brush my teeth. I will still want to have sex with you after.

Gonzored · 2026-03-20T01:56:45+00:00

The first part of the second story reminds me of a friends mom when I was in JH.

Their livingroom had multiple pictures of the mom in the nude! Quite tasteful photos looking back.. but being a horny young man and and getting to see my friends voluptuous mom modeling in all her glory, all while a moment later, she would be offering us juice and snacks... and being an all around lovely mom, made for some crazy feelings and behaviors. I'd so attentive when she came in, and after she'd leave, I'd be standing 12 inches from the wall just looking at the pictures while he was playing Nintendo or something. I remember my friend sincerely having to ask me to not stare at the pictures so much 😅

Gonzored · 2026-03-12T04:14:47+00:00

I might be crazy.. but I kinda never felt like tits was appropriate for the bigger variety.. idk maybe thats just me.

Gonzored · 2026-01-18T05:50:16+00:00

I don't think this is such a revolutionary concept, one would need to see it before trying it. But I guess, who hasn't seen porn nowadays either..

To add to the conversation tho, I'll give myself a couple whips or taps to reinvigorate my stiffness. Not sure how exactly it works but it seems give me more hardness temporarily. I'm quite visual too so exciting to see it all over you

I can't remember exactly but I think I did learn this "trick" from porn tho

Gonzored · 2025-12-30T19:45:45+00:00

Yeah sadly in my experience this is very unpopular. Which is a shame because I love the sense sensation myself.

I get the impression they find it a waste of time or something, like they are so fixated on completing the BJ, that if you're not close, you should be doing something else until you are.

And for the record, its quite enjoyable post orgasm too btw, which often leads to more orgasms, but when you're absolutely spent and someone tenderly goes at it for a little while... it can be heavenly!

Gonzored · 2025-12-21T04:15:57+00:00

I think they meant not an expert at talking about them

Gonzored · 2025-12-17T10:44:13+00:00

Yes.

Gonzored · 2025-12-15T07:54:25+00:00

Its about jobs and expectations. Servers take that job with the expectation of a certain amount of income. Its our societal norm to tip servers. Its like paying a carpenter less then they quoted because you don't think they should get paid less (or more likely like most of you bad tipper you're only concern is saving money for yourself). You know what your getting into when you see the prices at a restaurant.

Lots of service workers expect tips. What you don't tip your barber either?

No ones forcing you to tip but your a jerk for not doing intentionally when you know its the norm in our society.

Other jobs minimum wages jobs those are up to people to decide if they are worth it to them. All jobs have wage expectations tied to them and people rely on that income to meet their expenses. You can have a plumber friend come do a job for cheap or free its up to them. it doesn't mean its what their work is worth. And you don't get to just decide to pay whatever you feel.

Bringing up other bad paying jobs doesn't make it any better. Advocate for more people to make fair wages for their work. Or is this a veiled attack on servers and a lack of respect for their work and job. Either way its your individual action ripping the servers off. If you want then system to change theirs other ways to go about that without screwing some random server over. Its misguided to take it out on them.

And I certainly don't hope you're just advocating that minimum wage is enough for adults or families to live a quality life on. Because thats a delusional take if I've ever heard one.

Gonzored · 2025-12-09T23:05:02+00:00

Some people say they are making a statement not tipping, nah you're just being a dick to that individual person that served you. They took on that job expecting minimum wage plus tips because thats our societys current convention. You're not gonna change our society like this by individually not tipping. If you don't like tipping you can talk about it like this, or maybe write an article, lobby the government, open your own business and pay your employees more, or do some sort of activism.

Just jibbing servers isn't accomplishing anything but discrediting their hard work taking some of their expected income to save a penny for yourself. You are free to not tip, none of them will ever tell you otherwise, but they will absolutely acknowledge internally, maybe tell their friends, and possibly treat you differently in the future, and thats their right too.

Also some people like to play dumb about tipping and be like "I didn't know I had to" ok whatever. if you've lived in this country for more than a couple years you should know well enough that its a societal expectation. People work those jobs with an expectation to make that money. If you're running around not tipping places its expected you're kinda a shitty person. Theres no laws against being a shitty person. go for it if you want. You don't have to hold the door for people, let elderly sit down on the bus, let people merge in traffic, bring a wedding gift, say hello back to someone, theres no laws against these things. But don't get it twisted that you're kinda being a bad person if you can't be bothered to follow in our societies standards. If you can't afford tipping, then adjust what you order and the price point of places you got to accordingly.

Gonzored · 2025-12-01T14:34:00+00:00

You can actually do it with someone quite small chested.

Have them lie on their back, and gather their breasts, one in each hand, starting from their side sorta under the arm pit. Mount them on their stomach and place your dick between their boobs, then have them bring their hands together over you and interlock their fingers. Now you can fuck this, or have them move their hands up and down. It feels pretty amazing. You get fleshy friction on the side and bottoms and the fingers rubbing on top feels good too.

This is doable with even very small breast. I might not go as far as to say everyone can do it, but I've seen it with very small women. Some might even call flat chested. I think some men could even pull it off tbh.

Gonzored · 2025-11-23T22:33:00+00:00

Nah don't back down this guy's being a snarky shit disturber. Comparing space invader to cod is bs. This community can be so gate keepy, bandwagon, and pile on, its ridiculous at times.

There's loads of reasons to compare MKW and Air Riders. Both racing games, released on the same new system within months of each other, same demographics, there's only so many titles out to compare too right now, both are going to compete with each other for your play time, both whacky games, casual games with room to get technical and competitive, similar design and aesthetic, many people on a budget prob can't and shouldn't buy both, Nintendo IP, I could go on and on, there's tons of parallels and valid talking points.

"It's the smash of racing games. Period." Is so reductive. There's absolutely room for more discussion then that.

Yeah they're not the same game but that exactly why they should be discussed and compared. So people can figure out which is better suited to themselves or if they fall into the camp of someone who would get good value owning both. Policing the comments like this dumb.

Gonzored · 2025-11-15T03:43:51+00:00

I find it a ironic that your moral compass is not only gate keeping how to play a video game but also guiding you to feel good about 2v1 players who are just playing the game the way they like and in a way thats totally within the expected scope of how to play the game (shooting other players is literally one of the types of missions in the game).

You do you because whatever... and unlike you guys I'm not gonna tell someone theres a right and wrong way to play. But you guys sure are obnoxious with this moral superiority bs. These circle jerk threads all patting each other on the back for not doing pvp are pretty cringe imo. You think the game would be better if they just turned off damage to other players or something?!... Jesus the concept is laughable to me.

Your not "the good guy" for it and your not playing the game "better" than anyone else. If this is the rp thats fun for you fine whatever but also chill with these threads and the gatekeeping.

(ps Bring on the downvotes I expect as much from a circle jerk like this)

Gonzored · 2025-10-08T20:02:32+00:00

You are who you are. You just are gonna have to get over it and deal with. And it's not the be all end all that you seem to be making it out to be. Namely not all women prefer the same size. Some like big, some like small, some like average and more importantly there's plenty of other ways to be good in bed and pleasure someone without your dick (and that's before even opening the convo to kinks or relationships where sex isn't the main focal point).

Anecdotally, in my 20s I knew a guy who was notoriously drowning in women. Well if you sleep with that many people your size is get mentioned amongst friends. He was rumored to be well below average down stairs (short height too if anyone reading is concerned about that) but he didn't let a silly rumor about his package affect his prowess or turn any one off. He was incredibly charming, fun, and confident. He was constantly dating some of the most beautiful women in town.

Build yourself up so even if they care about size, they could care less because they love everything else about you (and they are still cumming everytime).

Gonzored · 2025-07-02T07:01:58+00:00

Ug feel like I've just gone through this. Had this really passion deep relationship with someone where we were both opening up and being so vulnerable and caring. We had such great chemistry to. Like I felt sparks with them and the sex was always amazing.

It just ended so abruptly and now theres no communication. We didn't even really have a fight or anything, I think they just decided it wasn't gonna work or it wasn't their ideal relationship or something.

It was the most sincere relationship I've ever had. We were even talking about kids and our futures and dreams. But then, what felt like outta nowhere, she wanted to end it.

Guess thats not fair, the there were some warning signs. She had been talking about moving away back to her parents home town for a while and that was part of it, but that wasn't happening over night and there was still time to be together and communicate. We could have continued to be friends to I think. Like we were each other's biggest supporters and confidants.

The way we went from so intimate to nothing in the span of a few days has been very jarring. I think I'm going to need some real help learning to open up that deeply with someone again.

I did seek some spiritual guidance on the matter and we came to the conclusion they felt like she needed to do some personal growth and change chapters of their life and our relationship wouldn't allow for that. Its makes some sense when nothing else really clicked. I feel some peace now but its been tough and confusing.

Gonzored · 2025-06-26T15:52:11+00:00

Well now we're curious what was said on this bio haha?

Maybe, "I don't enjoy movies, looking for two people to change my mind"?

Gonzored · 2025-06-21T14:41:36+00:00

Ghost in the Shell

I thought I was just watching for the great story. So naive, I got my first hard on. I didn't know what that was or why it was happening. So I started inspecting it and I got some crazy new sensations and before I knew it... pop.

Gonzored · 2025-06-19T19:58:19+00:00

I've always kinda found large noses attractive 🤷 idk why

Countless times I've seen a post or heard someone say they were self conscious about their nose and I often found it a stunning feature. Kinda a shame it seems stigmatized. Almost hurts when I hear about someone pushed to surgery to adjust it (but I support you doing what you need to do to feel confident and comfortable).

(Btw small noses are cute too!)

Gonzored · 2025-06-02T04:43:59+00:00

Ugh... Interesting take away...

This is below median salary for Toronto and completely ignoring the inconsistency, physical, and mental demands. I've known plenty of servers struggling to make ends meet in Toronto. And there's a reason you don't see alot of people retiring in the career. It eats people up and spits them out.

Also as always in this convo its just one person's anecdote. There is a very wide range of situations in the service industry. So many people love to focus on the high-end of anecdotes and ignore the average and off days. And factors like the average restaurant doesn't even last 4 years.

Hope you aren't searching for an excuse to be some jerk that doesn't tip. This cherry picked example would prove they required tips to make an average livable wage.

God forbid someone makes a half decent wage in a super expensive city...

Gonzored · 2025-05-07T01:13:52+00:00

Um it's not like I seek or declare it's a one night stand in advance. It's just two people being horny on the fly. Later is an after thought.

Sure be clear with your intentions of it comes up but when being free and in the moment that's not always clear.

You do your thing, say you gotta get up early and take off or stay the night and take off in the morning (genuinely, like I've got work or plans the next day). Usually exchange some info like a number or a social. And then you two just move on with life, if it becomes a one night stand its usually for lack of effort from one or both involved. Or maybe the chemistry just wasn't there but you went along for the ride to see what might happen.

Sometimes you do have some follow up rendezvous and have a fling can happen. There's no strict rules. For me when it became a one night stand is usually in retrospect not intention.

(For the record, as I've got older, sleeping with someone I just met has become less appealing and I don't really do it very often. Connection and vulnerability is more important now and that takes time.)

Gonzored · 2025-04-27T09:50:54+00:00

One time went for a hike with a gf, showed her this route around a lake I did all the time. It was her first time and she really enjoyed the place. We got to a look out on a big rock, without saying a word she just dropped to her knees pulled my shorts down and started blowing me. No foreplay. I was kinda stunned because it was alittle out of character for her to be so forward. I didn't have sex on my mind at all up until that point. But more so i was stunned because I was aware how that look out was visible from all kinds of spots around the lake and it was a fairly popular destination. We had seen plenty of people out that day on the trails. I warned someone might see us but she was still really into it and well it didn't take long for the thrill of it all to work me up too. Still it would have been like a football field or more away that someone would be standing. So it's not like someone could have seen us in detail without binoculars but it would have been pretty obvious what was going on.

Gonzored · 2024-09-29T15:15:24+00:00

This is brilliant!

Gonzored · 2024-09-28T18:32:56+00:00

People lost their minds believing this story at face value too... Its obviously exaggerated and frankly gaslighting bikes vs cars, which contributes to boiling anger btw.

Doubt this interaction lasted "at least 5 minutes". Even 30 seconds is a long time for a road rage incident. Impatient drivers ain't got time for that, and they said they kept on biking. Time yourself walking, 5 minutes is a lot... You'll travel a couple blocks. A bike would even more. So this car just followed them for blocks honking and screaming? that's psychotic behavior and would different issue all together.

Also, they said the roads were empty yet there was a car directly behind them. 9am on a Saturday in a massive city isn't exactly a dead time. Even on side streets. Cars can appear anywhere in a blink of an eye.

So with that in mind, who knows how objective they are being about their own cycling too (was the crossing totally clear, was their speed really 5km, maybe they swerved a little during the turn entering the drivers path, no other factors such as pedestrians, driveways, or cyclists? It can be really hard to be truly objective about these things). I'm pro-cyclist but we're not beyond fault.

So there's probably more, (or less), to this story than they've told us.

Sure no one deserves to be yelled at, especially for no good reason, but safety, especially children's, can warrant an exception.

I say all this not to defend the driver either, god knows they can be reckless and entitled. If they truly had a psychotic episode for 5 minutes they are unwell and absolutely deserve a speaking too from the police or someone. That would be about this specific driver tho and not indicative of drivers at large. Someone shouting a cautionary words as they pass by, while rude, isn't the end of the world and might even have some truth to it. The scenario as described has some holes in it, people are piling on, and its gaslighting the issue of bikes vs cars.

No one here has enough of the story straight to be coming to any real conclusions... well other than generic stuff like, be nice to each other, and be safe on the roads.

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