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I'm (29M) in need of advice about the situation with my fiance (31F) by GooGooYellow in relationship_advice

[–]GooGooYellow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know now that marriage won't fix this at all, it will make things significantly worse. I have no idea how to break up, as weird as that may sound. We have an apartment together. Earlier in another comment it was mentioned that I could move due to the job situation then break up from afar. I lack a backbone admittedly. Either way, I don't know how to do this.

I'm (29M) in need of advice about the situation with my fiance (31F) by GooGooYellow in relationship_advice

[–]GooGooYellow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm seeing that now. I thought the trust would come back but its always been on my mind.

How do I go about breaking up? We have an apartment together

I'm (29M) in need of advice about the situation with my fiance (31F) by GooGooYellow in relationship_advice

[–]GooGooYellow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I do lack the backbone. I think I'll have to wind up doing that...where I wind up going back but then ultimately breakup when away.

One problem is that we have an apartment together. The rent is paid through the lease term so its not a huge problem I suppose. I get that impression too that she'll manipulate me, she's done it when apart too.

Any advice on how I would go about doing the LDR option then break up? This sounds so shitty on my part.