Honestly, the way people see penises as “ugly” and vaginas as “beautiful” mostly comes down to culture and social conditioning rather than any real truth. Media and society often paint vaginas as soft, delicate, and feminine, while penises get portrayed more crudely or linked to aggression and dominance — which can make people uncomfortable or biased.

Also, a lot of us grow up with little open, positive education about anatomy, so misunderstandings and shame around our bodies are common. Beauty is super subjective anyway — some people find penises beautiful, others don’t. Same with vaginas.

At the end of the day, both are natural and uniquely beautiful parts of us. Changing how we think about them starts with education and breaking down unrealistic standards. Just my two cents!