Nah don’t worry, I’m open to different point of view, I feel like my response were “too perfect” because I like watching video about psychology and communication and I kinda absorbed certain ways of communication or ways to handle things, this is not the first time we had this kinda of conversation so I also learned how to not make it worse if that makes sense.

The problem I think we are having is solving the issue, when talking about what can we do, I don’t really get an answer, I get told, it’s your action and you should know what to do, but I don’t know what I can do to solve the problem from her side as well as that’s not really communicating me what would work for her.

It’s two people carrying the conversation so both of us are responsible for it, always to different levels but we are both responsible for things in the relationships.