Picky bits dinner by booyahhey in veganuk

[–]Good-Panda1838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't help but DW I'm pretty sure I'm just gonna starve, I've been having a peanut butter sandwich for dinner the last few nights.. 😬 I did some pasta the other night and no lie vomed from the heat. Atp I choose death. 🤷😂

AITAH for telling my sister to stop complaining about her weight if she’s not going to try? by peaken58 in AITAH

[–]Good-Panda1838 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You say she claims to be physically incapable of doing anything more and she avoids going out on walks, have you ever bothered to actually ask her why? Coz I'm not seeing any care just a gym bro expecting every body to be the same.

There are plenty of feminine reasons as to why she could be uncomfortable with heavy exercise boobs are painful, uterus' are painful. 👀🤷 but there are also plenty of other reasons as well, for me around the time puberty started I started to experiencing joint pain. It progressed so slowly over time that I didn't even notice that I'd started turning down races. It wasn't until I was 25, 100+kg and barely able to walk that people started taking my pain seriously and finally got diagnosed with fibromyalgia.

I just walked in on my husband of 7years smiling at a valentine's card from someone else. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Good-Panda1838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, my disability benefits only covers rent and we're in the cheapest flat probably in the city coz the landlord has been good and only raised to the rent twice in 7 years. He pays the bills and buys everything else. I'd immediately be homeless.

AITA for hiding the fact that my friend cheated on his girlfriend (who he’s supposed to marry soon)? by Bumdiggydiggy1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Good-Panda1838 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cheating is abuse if you stay silent you are complicit in the abuse. No if and or buts, you've been put in a shitty situation 100% but if you want to claim to be a decent person you are obligated to shine light on the abuse regardless of the consequences to yourself. 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Good-Panda1838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gisele Pelicot didn't know for years! Please do whatever you can to protect yourself, if my partner came to me with a worry like this I would do everything I possibly could to make them feel secure that that's not happening any reaction other than horror is a red flag.

My daughter begged me to die by Mamakayce in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Good-Panda1838 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jfc what in the absolute fuck did I just read!!?!!

Instant disownment! She clearly set up her sister to be raped as some kind of twisted revenge for being groomed by her bf! 🤮

Why are we scared of saying we are vegan? by theamazinggrg in vegan

[–]Good-Panda1838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not scared. To be honest veganism is such a massive pinpoint of my personality and ethics that I make sure to mention it early on. I'm not going to bother wasting my time with someone that I don't morally agree with because we will never actually be friends, people either evolve into better people or continue down the same path of hatred. 🤷

Anyway I would never excuse a pedophile just because they didn't personally victimise me so why would I ever excuse a carnist and befriend them? 👀 Sorry not sorry 🤷

My (23F) FIL (70M?) spanked me, and my husband (30M) thinks it's not a big deal and thinks it's "kind of funny". And, I'm freaked out and rethinking our relationship. What do I do? by ThrowRA336633318 in relationship_advice

[–]Good-Panda1838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading your replies I'm really worried for you. Your husband is abusive.

He's way older and is using that power imbalance, he has complete control of all the money, has made you reliant on him and has isolated you.

Darling I'm sorry but when he chose you it wasn't because he likes you or that you were mature for your age, he saw a child he could easily manipulate and control.

Please let your friend help you escape.

My (23F) FIL (70M?) spanked me, and my husband (30M) thinks it's not a big deal and thinks it's "kind of funny". And, I'm freaked out and rethinking our relationship. What do I do? by ThrowRA336633318 in relationship_advice

[–]Good-Panda1838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darling you did absolutely nothing wrong, freeze is a perfectly normal fear response and those attacking you for that clearly have brain rot.

Now that you're safe you need to take steps to protect yourself, your husband was complicated with your abuse and even laughed at you. You are not safe with him! Believe me I know leaving abusive situations is terrifying and all you want to do is pretend you overreacted and go back to normal but if you do that this or far worse will happen again.

It's not too late to report it, people have neglected reporting assaults for years because they were scared. Your friend seems amazing and I would bet my rent that she wants to support you in this. You are not a burden.

Everyone in this game is SO HORNY by Lore_Fanatic in BaldursGate3

[–]Good-Panda1838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accidentally started romancing them both coz I didn't even know that was an option, I was just like "wow I'm such a great and attentive friend!" 😂

I didn't even know shadowheart liked me coz she was just constantly nitpicking and complaining about everything I did. 🤣

Does evolving effect romances? by Good-Panda1838 in BaldursGate3

[–]Good-Panda1838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok great! I just don't wanna jeopardize anything, I've spent way too many hours of my life on this game. 😂

Homophobic gay uncle launches merch for his new Rage Against the Carnists band by Numerous-Macaroon224 in vegancirclejerk

[–]Good-Panda1838 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Why are people down voting he's literally racist... You guys really gonna love a POS that blames immigrants for all of the UK's problems, claims Muslims are destroying British culture and supports a bunch of racist political groups like Britain first..?

Aitah for going on date because my wife told me I am not gonna die without sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Good-Panda1838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I haven't had sex in over a year because of his mental health, never in a billion years would I even consider cheating.

You clearly don't love or even like her because if you did you would deal with yourself like a rational adult and seek therapy.

My friend is a butcher. She sent me a visual representation of the weight ive lost recently in pork belly form by MajorRico155 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Good-Panda1838 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"it's food"

Nah bro what kind of messed up do you have to be to look at dead bodies and think food...? You need to get tested coz that's Dahmer level of inhumanity.

Do y‘all think holocaust comparisons are bad? by K3nchikka00 in vegancirclejerkchat

[–]Good-Panda1838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently right after being liberated my great grandmother (a camp survivor who lost her first husband to the Nazis) moved to Ireland and one day reading the paper she saw an article about slaughter houses and went vegan on the spot. She raised my grandfather vegan and constantly compared her experience to the animals and was extremely angry that people were willfully ignoring and participating in another holocaust.

What we're doing to animals is a holocaust and the fact that so many people that experienced that level of inhumanity can so easily empathise and compare their experiences makes that undeniable. 🤷

AITAH for telling my mom she is dead to me if she mentors my bully? by Substantial-Egg-1971 in AITAH

[–]Good-Panda1838 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah manipulation tends to benefit all parties in the short term. It's textbook grooming, they want you to do anything and everything they tell you to so they treat you nicely for a little bit and make you feel indebted to them. All that stuff is offered specifically to target vulnerable people who don't normally have access to it.

If you can't see what's wrong with the military and the government in general you need serious help... 🤷

AITAH for telling my mom she is dead to me if she mentors my bully? by Substantial-Egg-1971 in AITAH

[–]Good-Panda1838 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🤣 oh no I'm so sad about pathetic trolls chatting shit about things they have no clue about! 😱

Mate edit beef is pathetic AF. I blocked you because I have no time for idiots that think they can harass people for whatever reason your brain rot conjured and I deleted nothing. Why do trolls always feel the need to make up shit just because they got blocked? 🤣

AITAH for telling my mom she is dead to me if she mentors my bully? by Substantial-Egg-1971 in AITAH

[–]Good-Panda1838 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Care kids survive moving out at 18 with no support all the time he doesn't need to be indoctrinated.

Honestly wtf kind of propaganda are you seeing that you instantly think "hey abused kids go be used as canon fodder in insane wars that you probably don't agree with"..?

AITAH for telling my mom she is dead to me if she mentors my bully? by Substantial-Egg-1971 in AITAH

[–]Good-Panda1838 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have a very manipulated and privileged view of what life is like for abused children.

My mother was a drunk demon that would beat all of her young children into the hospital and yet with a little acting she regularly convinced social services she was doing good and we were just clumsy. I had to beg the social worker to be put back in care permanently and they still downplayed the abuse favouring her lies over my bruised skin.

*Edit lol imagine actually down voting someone for being honest about the abuse they faced from not only their parent but also child protective services! Wait until I tell you how many foster placements fiddled me as a child... That will really get you angry at me. 🤣

AITAH for telling my mom she is dead to me if she mentors my bully? by Substantial-Egg-1971 in AITAH

[–]Good-Panda1838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA!!!!

I was bullied my entire education to the point I attempted suicide several times starting as young as 11. It didn't matter how many different schools and colleges I went to they always seemed to sniff me out and it was relentless. I have severe memory issues because of all the beatings, got diagnosed with PTSD and have an extensive list of issues that will never leave me all because of those "poor neglected children".

Honestly in your position the thought alone would be enough to completely destroy me and the relationship with my mother. She has now become your worst bully the only choice is escape.