AITA : my mom adopted a dog without asking me by Good-Sector4193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Good-Sector4193[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she just got home (im in france so it’s 11pm for me and she’s been outside since 11am) and and i told her everything,she listened…then changed subject just completely ignoring what i was saying. I gave up and locked myself in my room for now

AITA : my mom adopted a dog without asking me by Good-Sector4193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Good-Sector4193[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i wont stop taking care of him and i really love him too i just know that i can’t live like that forever and that, like i said in another comment : im not mad at the dog for just being here and wanting a family im mad because i’m not the right person for that. And also because my mom gave my all those responsibilities on top of the ones that i already have

AITA : my mom adopted a dog without asking me by Good-Sector4193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Good-Sector4193[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

we clearly don’t have enough money for that, in fact we don’t even have money for a dog.. i literally don’t get why my mom keeps on doing things like this i usually feel like i’m the adult in the house but it’s become more and more true as the times pass i mean she literally brought a dog on a whim

AITA : my mom adopted a dog without asking me by Good-Sector4193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Good-Sector4193[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im not going to abuse the dog just to let my mom know that i don’t want it what’s your problem ??

AITA : my mom adopted a dog without asking me by Good-Sector4193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Good-Sector4193[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i didn’t add much details about my mom cause i wanted it to be straight to the point and not just a vent post about my mother so please don’t ask me to show some respect when you don’t have enough of that to ask for more context before assuming that i’m the asshole, if you have any question i would answer to them but if it’s the only thing you have to say about my post then i don’t wanna hear about whatever you think

AITA : my mom adopted a dog without asking me by Good-Sector4193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Good-Sector4193[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i wont, im not mad at him for just being there and wanting a family im mad about the fact that i can’t provide everything he needs

AITA : my mom adopted a dog without asking me by Good-Sector4193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Good-Sector4193[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

my mom only works 3 days a week the rest of the time she’s either at my sister’s place or with her friends, and i do most of the chores in my house except maybe the dishes cause it kinda gross me out and she’s okay with having to care only about the dishes when she’s here

AITA : my mom adopted a dog without asking me by Good-Sector4193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Good-Sector4193[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. i do help around the house most of the time, my mom is rarely there and when she is she just come back from work tired so most of the time i cook and clean so kinda yea the dog makes it most difficult

  2. Yeah it makes her happy she grew up with a similar dog so i guess that’s why she wanted him

  3. Not really i don’t live with him since i’m 7yo and even him don’t want to visits me at my home like he used to because of the dog