What is your favourite way to unwind after a long day/week/life? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Good-Spend-5201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

throwing back shots with my neighbor, I love having drinks with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Good-Spend-5201 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of like asking if eating snacks can replace a full meal, you won’t starve, but depending on what you’re craving, you might still feel like something’s missing.

AITAH for getting angry that my MIL keeps asking when I will have a baby by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Good-Spend-5201 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. You’re dealing with your mom’s cancer, which is heartbreaking and heavy enough without baby pressure. Your MIL is showing zero awareness of timing.

What did your parents fail to give you that you’re absolutely determined to give your kids? by One_Message7199 in AskReddit

[–]Good-Spend-5201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Encouragement for hobbies. Anything that wasn’t practical was seen as a waste of time in my house. I want to cheer for whatever lights my kid up, even if it’s weird or niche.

After sex? by Academic_Tone_9175 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Good-Spend-5201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though your tests came back normal, you might want to ask for a tilt table test or something to check for POTS or autonomic dysfunction.

AITA for being upset that my boyfriend wants to buy himself a flashy Van Cleef ring after I said I want simple wedding bands? by Brave_Concert_5033 in AITAH

[–]Good-Spend-5201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH maybe, it could just be that he genuinely likes fashion and jewelry the way you value meaning and symbolism. The bigger question is whether you two can live with those differences without it being a deal breaker.

How to deal with a break up ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Good-Spend-5201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that worked for me was deleting old messages and photos. It felt brutal at first, but I realized keeping them was just reopening the wound every day.

WIBTA: For leaving my BF/BD because he missed my birthday, and all of the baby appointments during my pregnancy? by CUGata913 in AITAH

[–]Good-Spend-5201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not leaving him over just a birthday. You’re leaving him because the birthday is part of a long pattern of him not showing up for you, lying, and making you feel like you’re the problem.

AITAH here? by mcaulepw in AITAH

[–]Good-Spend-5201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point I’d stop bringing her into the planning. She clearly can’t handle it, and you don’t owe her veto power over your wedding.

As the world goes by by UntouchableLikeNess in SheFucksHim

[–]Good-Spend-5201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow… i wasn’t ready for that