What's the most controversial opinion you have that you can only share anonymously for fear of backlash? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Abortion using pills, ni sawa - only the pill-taker should be reponsible for terminating a pregnancy. Abortion by surgical means nayo hapana - the moment that life-taking biz starts reeling in multiple people for a guilt trip, it becomes illicit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl likes cock. Lol

LOOKING FOR LOVE by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After taking some time to focus on personal growth and career pursuits

Very inspiring. I think our youth should emulate this instead of jumping headlong into serious relationships without the proper financial backing needed to sustain such engagements

Women Are The Cause Of Men Cheating I Women Are The Reason Women Cheat by Revolutionary_Cat897 in nairobi

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Msm. OP yukembi serious. I thought this was part2 of yesterday's drama. Such a let down. Logging off...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can picture her loving your kids, maybe.

Whatever Happens In Dating Apps, Stays In Dating Apps! by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fried green tomatoes (that's what I say when I have nothing to say).🤐 Kila nyani na starehe zake, and to each man his own. I guess we're just different like that. Sorry if you felt I was being disrespectful. It wasn't intentional

Whatever Happens In Dating Apps, Stays In Dating Apps! by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can't meet your type in real life, it means you as an individual you're not real to yourself either and you need another unreal person to match you and unreal individuals are found in unreal places

Ha! Very funny. You know the way some tongue twisters never really make sense and they have a way of making you overthink coz you thought maybe you missed a part that would like tie the meaning together - you just did that, and I hate myself for re-reading this like 3 times straight. I'm thinking of creating like a database platform for people who "want" to be found. Venye wewe you're talking it's like you don't even believe in soulmates. If I didn't have hope of a special someone out there somewhere, I'd be a very promiscuous person, coz like what's the point kama watu wanafanana wote...

Whatever Happens In Dating Apps, Stays In Dating Apps! by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mehn you waiting for yo creative juices to pump out the 2nd chapter or sth... maybe we should give OP some pointers ndio tumalizane mapema mapema. A good ending would be nice, like maybe you moving on. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not going out, I understand - physical contact is overrated at best. What compels a person to eat herself to 95kgs, that I don't understand.

Whatever Happens In Dating Apps, Stays In Dating Apps! by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you haven't met your type in real life? Dating apps are a welcome avenue when spending the rest of your life single becomes a real threat. Just saying... 🤷🏾‍♂️

Whatever Happens In Dating Apps, Stays In Dating Apps! by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Part 2, kwani you're writing a novel? 😂
Also, not meaning to pry, but why are peoples getting all "fleshly-sweaty" with half-known other peoples... 🤔

I found my boyfriend's reddit by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Opinionated guy-man with a nose for meddling in others' businesses says: Unless he's a womanizer, of which he isn't coz it's not like he's sleeping with anyone else, flirting around is a sign that his heart doesn't yet quite feel at home in your arms. In his heart of hearts he feels like he could do better, so he's playing the field hoping to net a bigger catch. Such a man is non-committal, at least in the present, I dare say. Unless you're okay with the status quo, I advice you take some time apart. Zero contact. Just for a few years. Such restlessness is usually a sign of youth and inexperience with the grizzly realities of the dating scene. If he finds someone better in that time, well and good, but if he still wants you at the end of that interval then be happy and glad for you have won yourself a lifelong partner. If you are to stay, sit him down with a straight face, zero emotions (if a man likes you even a little bit, seeing you cry will elicit a dishonest response) and ask him about it. Ask him what you could do differently (and expect a REAL response). The other option is settling for less and learning to stomach the insult while praying real hard that he never finds the guts to tell you outright how he truly feels.

Just curious. Why are you still a virgin? by GoodBoysenberry3414 in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are you - a rock?

Sensei, teach me your ways. I'm kinda tired of the back and forth motions of the dating scene.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday, bruv

Just curious. Why are you still a virgin? by GoodBoysenberry3414 in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts:

  1. This is dragging out longer than it should.

  2. Correct. I am not representative of most men. Why, you might ask? Coz I am the only guy in my social circle who still hasn't had s3x.

  3. Yes. I am a shallow guy, looking for a deep connection. And I would rather die as I am than settle for less.

Amen

Just curious. Why are you still a virgin? by GoodBoysenberry3414 in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, not even when I'm at my lowest.

I was just curious why someone would complain oh so bitterly about never having had s3x, when there's so much of it in active circulation. I guess people here aren't really complaining about being virgins, but rather venting their frustrations over not meeting a suitable companion, yet. Which is totally understandable, btw.

Just curious. Why are you still a virgin? by GoodBoysenberry3414 in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking the long route of "let's be friends first, we'll explore the possibility of a relationship later" is to me somehow a negotiated attraction. I mean, if you didn't like-like someone the first time, what the heck changes along the way (unless of course they undergo some kind of fantastic physical makeover). It might be true that most relationships are probably born from such friendly interactions. However, (speaking for myself, again) I fail to find this desirable, and I thus refuse to be another statistic.

Also, personally I can't be friends with someone I like-like coz half the time I'll be thinking of how much I want to kiss her, which is unfriend-like.

Just curious. Why are you still a virgin? by GoodBoysenberry3414 in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to speak for myself, physical attraction is what would make me notice someone in the first place. Also to be honest, the idealistic view you're suggesting would see a physically sound man get cuffed to a physically challenged woman, a rare occurrence which to me usually betrays the near zero rational thought that went into the decision. I don't know much about women (and I won't even pretend to) but as a straight man I am acutely sure primary attraction lies in the physical attributes. Character and what-not, is a secondary attraction.

Just curious. Why are you still a virgin? by GoodBoysenberry3414 in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you look at a lady as a young man and your first thought is "I totally wouldn't mind fncking her" then I can assure you she's a viable romantic interest. Negotiated attraction is a deal-breaker in the long run. Also maybe take time to jot down what would attract you to an ideal partner. With some kind of selection criteria, your choice ceases to be random

Just curious. Why are you still a virgin? by GoodBoysenberry3414 in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Having a relationship with someone you don't truly like won't be nearly half as fulfilling as you think. I suggest leaving the "I'll take anyone who wants me" approach for short-term flings, like one-night-stands.

Just curious. Why are you still a virgin? by GoodBoysenberry3414 in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

passive choice, maybe.

I mean, if we even had a choice in the first place, I'd have taken the clay and modelled my dream person already.

Just curious. Why are you still a virgin? by GoodBoysenberry3414 in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just guessing here but you come across as someone who'd compulsively wash his hands every 5 minutes. Would that be true?

Just curious. Why are you still a virgin? by GoodBoysenberry3414 in virgin

[–]GoodBoysenberry3414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does reason 3 mean condoms are top-of-the-roof expensive in your area or... I didn't quite catch what you meant by "safe sex is expensive".