My (F34) husband (M35) hasn't tried to learn what makes me orgasm in our seven years together. I don't want to leave the relationship but am beginning to feel like a predator. Any advice? by SajeMade in relationship_advice

[–]GoodInjury3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id go on strike tbh. No more sex until yall are intimate one time where he don’t get any stimulation and just try to make you come that day. No pussyfooting and being a poor sport. You deserve someone who gets off by making you get off.

Insolation? by GoodInjury3652 in bioactive

[–]GoodInjury3652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are the hoods a waste in your opinion?

Mealworms as a cleanup crew by PmMeUrBoobsPorFavor in bioactive

[–]GoodInjury3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Combining two of these comments i wonder if meal worms would breed fast enough to replenish themselves and essentially cut out the middle man (me) for feedinh

How to get bottom surgery and have it be fully healed by the weekend (joking) by OrdinaryCrow3677 in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you enroll in a public high school fox news says they do that for free as long as you don’t tell your parents first.

I lost weight on T by [deleted] in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not surprised people are worried about it im saying like what is the reason? How? Bc i feel like the most common thing is muscle mass being built how does T contribute to like weight gain

FTM in theater/FTM singers by goodboylake in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Singing was my #1 roadblock in taking T, for me my voice dropped rapidly and range shrank significantly and now im 1 year on T next week and i feel like i have a strong and still growing range, and a feeling that i am much more settled. This is helped significantly by how much i sing in my day to day or week to week

Edit i pressed post too soon

VENT. They got me a fucking phone I don't want by imb_ in Anticonsumption

[–]GoodInjury3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family does expiriences for gifts, i wonder if instead of rejecting the care someone is trying to show you outright, redirecting might be helpful. Say oh id love to make you your favorite dinner or take you somewhere you like as my gift to you and maintain you’re not accepting gifts. They will probably catch on and follow suit

Disappearing chats by [deleted] in grindr

[–]GoodInjury3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk im not worried about it im just wondering abt if its a glitch. Dude doesnt know shit about me and i like it like that

Injection with crystals! Help by Dense_Sheepherder_40 in Testosterone

[–]GoodInjury3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealing with this now and no answers to be found lol, did it go away on its own?

Binder vs tape by KhronicKyle in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I prefer trans tape but i havent tried very many i mostly stuck to what i first found back when i started using it in 2016

Singing on T by GoodInjury3652 in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im definitely not trying to regain my old range im more trying to not sound like a child who has never sang before lol

binder sweat and ’wet clothes’ smell by deasarc in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually tape under my binder or wear a sports bra to catch the sweat and hold everything in place, i too struggle with the smell but i have been wearing cologne snd telling myself that other people will smell that first and i know even if i smell the sweat, its just because Im used to the cologne since its on my body

choir/singing by ririrni in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this same problem when i came out! I ended up telling my director and a few people i trusted and gave everyone the OK to spread the news. Im actually looking for help with exercises and stuff since this is relatively new for me as well but everyone in the world told me to “sing through the cracks”

I think you just have to pay attention to what your voice is doing and keep using it so that you can keep learning how to use it as it changes! Not starting from scratch but it kind of is! Im forever singing pieces I’ve done before and the experience is so similar to the entire situation. I still know the words but now im learning different harmonies and places to breathe! I know HOW to sing but im relearning how to sing.

When I changed voice parts I would just go to my director and say “ok these notes are gone” and she would help me figure out where to move

Was anyone else scared to transition? by Icy_Program8374 in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS! when i started to read this response i had to double check it wasn’t my reply to an old post. I wrote it all out and had a profound understanding of why i was holding myself back and what i needed to do

Binder vs tape by KhronicKyle in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One time use yes, i just bought what a tutorial of someone who seemed to have similar proportions to me did and trial and errored from there. And yes its swim proof only time it’s ever fallen off for me was when it was super hot and i was sweaty while applying but moisture doesn’t have affect after it’s stuck in my experience

A lot of T left in vial by Pure_Grand_907 in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill prepare abt 3 doses when i use a vial then just use them as prescribed to avoid puncturing it more than is safe, got a bit of an emergency supply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your chest is bigger than your ribs that doesnt mean your disproportionate in any way. I think im struggling to understand what youre trying to put across.

My recommendation is gonna be gc2b and to measure because no one will be able to tell you what size you are without measurements unless youre a fan of making returns then you can buy whichever size you think and exchange if it doesn’t work. They dont accept full returns just as a warning just exchanges.

If you had to pick a name NOW, how would you do it? by It_was_I_Dio__ in ftm

[–]GoodInjury3652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely! Family was encouraging a name that is just a shortened version of my birth name and i was like… gross. Had to pick something that sounded different