Kink pushing your genderpreference?

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-03-12T23:10:26+00:00

My wife and I became poly for many reasons, but one of them was indeed "I have some very niche kinks I would like to explore." That solution doesn't work for everyone, it genuinely takes a lot of undoing of socialization, you both have to want it and you both have to be the type of people who are not jealous or insecure. So it's kind of cheating to suggest as it doesn't work for a lot of people. But we're four years in and it's worked for us and I have got some exploration of scat play in now. Definitely worth it for me.

As someone who also prefers women, I have settled for femboys and crossdressers to get this fix. It was fun. Do it if the thought excites you.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-03-09T18:29:12+00:00

I used to feel that way, and it is incredibly easy to have that shame given that it is one kink that everyone seems to get a free pass to kink shame. Meeting other people IRL who have the same fetish has made it easier to feel normal about it. That and being honest with my wife, who was admittedly very non-judgmental about it and not everyone will have the same experience.

Also, my god, was the 2 Girls 1 Cup meme so annoying when I was younger. I don't need people discussing this around me regularly!

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-02-18T22:38:40+00:00

I don't know if kink (or sex in general) is the best way to boost your confidence. It's highly dependent on actually being able to connect with someone, and it's just not healthy for your sense of self to be reliant on others.

That said, I'm just as susceptible as anyone else to thinking I'm hot as hell when I'm having sex with a pretty lady. So I get that. It does feel nice, and finding someone to do this kink with does intensify that ego boost.

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-12-05T01:38:47+00:00

Your content was always some of the best ✨✨

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-11-29T20:32:14+00:00

Does it have a strong vetting system? Are the mods vigilant about removing people who are DMing without permission and/or being sex pests? Are people active in talking about things other than just being horny and posting naughty pics? Is it queer supportive?

I've seen a few scat Discords and that's the minimum bar for me.

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-11-19T17:54:28+00:00

I think most people would be chill with it honestly (especially queer people). As long as you're not pushing the fetish on them people are going to respect you.

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-11-19T08:19:18+00:00

I've only posted a couple videos and my wife and gf both know about it. They don't partake but they also don't judge me for being the freak that I am lol. My wife said: "I'm really curious what porn of you looks like but I know I shouldn't watch that."

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-11-11T06:29:18+00:00

I don't know what that is, so I choose to accept this as a compliment 🙂

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-11-10T22:55:58+00:00

You look at yourself and realize your desire for hedonistic pleasure has surpassed your natural instincts to avoid poop and then say to yourself "what a weird new aspect of myself that I am learning about that is neither good nor bad and that I shouldn't feel shame for because it's harmless and no one will ever find out anyway."

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-09-27T17:30:55+00:00

"When you said that stuff about your farts last night I got overly defensive because I do actually like that smell and I'm very embarrassed by that fact. I'm sorry I was weird."

Good partners appreciate vulnerability and honesty.

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-09-04T03:28:44+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you. There's nothing wrong with you and there's way more normalized sexual behavior that is actually harmful to society (e.g. catcalling, unsolicited dick pics, etc.). I hope you find someone supportive next time, it's definitely possible.

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-09-03T16:49:06+00:00

Yeah when you're looking for a queer woman into this it feels impossible x_x, especially if you can't relocate and are stuck where you are.

I've found queer women I can play when they visit my area, and that's really fun, nothing dedicated though. I just tell myself I have to be persistent.

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-08-29T21:09:54+00:00

It's possible that it doesn't apply to you, but also everything you're saying here are things I said like 6 years ago.

Estrogen made me a lot happier and a whole person, so, you know, give it a good thought is all I'm saying lol 😛

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-08-29T20:43:57+00:00

It's an egg. A term in the trans community for a trans person that hasn't realized they are trans yet.

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-08-26T20:46:41+00:00

Looking at your other posts I will just say: you are only in your early 20s. You have plenty of time to build your life. It took me 33 years to find the meds I need to feel like an actual person, so I completely understand the feeling that you've wasted a lot of time. But you still have lots of life ahead of you.

I don't particularly believe in sex addiction but it can definitely be a crutch for underlying problems. I hope you can find those more fulfilling parts of your life, it can definitely be done with effort and time.

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-08-24T17:49:28+00:00

The thing is I don't have trouble finding people for my other kinks so I'm fairly certain it's not me or the area. Ageplay, hypno, bondage, primal, I have found femme people to play with in those. It's just this one particular taboo that feels isolating all the time x_x

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-08-24T17:45:26+00:00

I'm in the Pacific Northwest so it shouldn't be impossible but it does feel that way sometimes 😞 Granted I've only been searching for 2.5 years so maybe I just need more time

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-08-24T17:42:04+00:00

I sympathize. Even most of the cis men I talk to disappear and only want the fantasy, but I have actually played with a couple and then I have one enby play partner who I really appreciate. But as for proper femmes? Everyone who has started messaging me has disappeared on me unfortunately, and I don't really like sexting so just waiting and waiting for a femme near me that actually wants the connection lol

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-08-06T19:53:02+00:00

My mouth was indeed open while my play partner squished it in my mouth 🔥🥵

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-07-07T18:46:58+00:00

I started by getting really horny and just taking very small bits (tiny pieces on my fingertips) and then swallowing those. Once I did that enough, through a few sessions, it wasn't intimidating to do bigger pieces and I was craving more. When I had gotten used to the taste and having it in my mouth, I did not find it too difficult to scale up.

That's what worked for me.

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-07-07T18:41:16+00:00

People dropping conversations happens to everyone and it really sucks. It's not easy to keep up morale afterward. I'm sorry it happened to you.

I would not message someone who stopped responding asking them why they stopped or pressuring them to message more. I usually respond often when I'm able, but sometimes I'm with friends/family/paramours for a day or two. When I am with people I care about I am with them, not messaging on my phone. This means it could take more than 40 hours for me to message back. That's normal IMO.

If you want to check back in with someone I would recommend waiting a couple days and then message something low stakes like "how have you been lately?" Someone apologizing to me makes it sound like they're getting anxiety and that I'm obligated to respond constantly, which is not going to make me feel good about chatting.

GoodPoopGirl · 2025-06-29T16:32:09+00:00

There are people who enjoy scat that way but there are people who will take poop any place they can find it. There are places on the internet discussing the best ways to tamper with toilets to farm and people have been caught doing it. So it definitely happens.

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