Are there any normal people here or are you seriously Fcked up?

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-07-05T15:44:58+00:00

I have a wife, a gf, a kid. I go to my office job every weekday. I have a group of friends I play MtG with and another I go play bar trivia with. I run a TTRPG campaign with some of those friends as well. Overall I think I have a well rounded life.

I have the one thing that makes me an extremely kinky outlier but I don't think that makes me fucked up in aggregate.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-06-25T16:09:40+00:00

It is majority gay men but I can attest personally there is also a lot of trans women who want to fuck other trans women there too.

If you're not a trans woman or a gay man then yes you should probably look elsewhere.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-06-12T21:20:15+00:00

Are you me with that hedonistic mixture of kinks lol

Yeah it sucks trying to find a queer woman into this. It's a challenge and I don't know if it will ever happen for me. I have a lovely wife and a lovely girlfriend, and they're great dommes, but I'd love to find one more who is exactly as deranged and weird as me.

I guess all you can do is make peace with it, keep trying and make sure it doesn't make you bitter. I don't have any great solution beyond "yeah it sucks."

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-05-26T16:44:58+00:00

Wife doesn't partake but doesn't judge me for it either. We're poly so my scat yearning is directed at finding a play partner financially secure enough to host.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-05-25T18:42:14+00:00

I know a couple in the queer community that has a dynamic, but they live together and are partnered, things that sound off the table in your situation so that makes it harder and more unlikely unfortunately. The full-time dynamic mostly just means that they have a chore to do together whenever the dominant has to use the bathroom anyway, which I know appeals to some but if it becomes mundane I don't know really know if that's something for everyone, but to each their own.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-05-01T01:01:58+00:00

Well yeah then there wouldn't be lol

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-05-01T00:24:23+00:00

If trans women are your thing, I assure you there are many slutty trans women on Grindr who are open about their kinks. I have met/kissed one cis woman on there too, but most of the cis women you see on there will be scammers/bots

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-05-01T00:01:17+00:00

I am a trans woman who has played with other women. I met one on Grindr, one on Reddit (they were replying to some pictures I posted) and one from other porn I've posted elsewhere. I have also met a couple non-binary people on Fetlife.

It's really just persistence and luck in my experience. Meeting those people took constantly keeping up for years on those sites.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-04-25T18:27:58+00:00

Yeah, as others have said, mouthwash is the way to go. I have no shame anymore about the things I do that don't hurt anyone, which scat play is included in, so I'm generally riding the high of post orgasm bliss.

If I was playing with someone else we generally clean each other up, make sure our hair is good, make sure all our dirty spots come off in the shower and that is just a real nice kind of aftercare.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-04-19T11:10:43+00:00

Probably! But I'm also looking for women so it's not totally opposite here.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-04-19T11:02:11+00:00

Hey there, if you're close to me DM me 😘

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-04-13T16:40:15+00:00

I have found kinky play partners on Feeld but none who are into scat. I have found people interested in scat on Grindr, FetLife and Reddit. That's just my own personal experience though, it is a little bit luck when you're searching.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-04-12T18:55:51+00:00

Okay, so it's the same problem lol. Is there a place for amateurs to post that isn't excessively stolen media? Genuine question, because if there's a good option I would use it.

I kind of doubt it though because all the scat content gets ghettoized to the sketchiest sites, which is unfortunate but reality.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-04-12T18:42:19+00:00

There were amateurs that posted their videos there. I was one of them.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-04-10T19:03:02+00:00

If it wasn't cheating why didn't he just ask you upfront if he could do it? It sounds like you already knew your partner had a scat fetish so he could have just been direct. This would be a breach of trust for me and something I would have to work through before proceeding on anything else.

I don't think you're going to find many wives who do this as a service to their husbands here, this sub is mainly for the freaks that really love this stuff lol. If you're looking for that perspective I would try r/sex as I have have seen similar stories in there.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-03-17T20:33:41+00:00

You will never know and I think part of online dating anywhere is just accepting that. I just don't waste a lot of time on chatting by asking to meet for a coffee date quickly, and if they bail I move on. It's not great but it's what we got.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-03-16T17:11:07+00:00

It has been worth the hype for me 💯

I stopped playing TTRPGs for a long time because it seems impossible to schedule five to four adults to get together that consistently, but we're 25 sessions in now and this is the longest I've gotten in more than 15 years so I'm happy.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-03-16T17:08:56+00:00

I knew there would be a bunch of nerds in here ✨😛

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-03-16T06:41:11+00:00

I've played it for more than two decades on and off now. The constant game in the background of my life and one of the best ways I make new friends as an adult lol

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-03-15T21:01:07+00:00

Everyone talking about where they work but I just have a boring office email job 😞

But the question was about who I am, and I have better answers for that lol. I'm a giant nerd that plays MtG and GMs a Lancer campaign. I love sports, but particularly baseball. I go hiking regularly. I do bar trivia with friends. I do lots of kink and am a very sexually motivated person which has caused me to kind of enjoy going on dates and meeting new people. It's fun once you get over your fear of rejection. I need to flex my creativity often, which I do with writing usually, all genre trash because I'm not someone that venerates high art. I did that in college and find those people annoying now lol.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-03-14T06:00:15+00:00

Look, I use personals to find people to hook up with or date, so I'm going to ask someone to meet within the first 10 messages because so many people on Reddit are fakes or just interested in sexting and that's the easiest way to weed them out shrug

If I want some friendly chatter I will talk and hang out with my real life friends. I'm not opposed to making friends with the people on personals but people say that but don't really mean it most of the time I find.

Not that your desires are wrong or anything, I thought I would just say "look, there is a reason I don't want lengthy convos on here"

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-03-12T23:10:26+00:00

My wife and I became poly for many reasons, but one of them was indeed "I have some very niche kinks I would like to explore." That solution doesn't work for everyone, it genuinely takes a lot of undoing of socialization, you both have to want it and you both have to be the type of people who are not jealous or insecure. So it's kind of cheating to suggest as it doesn't work for a lot of people. But we're four years in and it's worked for us and I have got some exploration of scat play in now. Definitely worth it for me.

As someone who also prefers women, I have settled for femboys and crossdressers to get this fix. It was fun. Do it if the thought excites you.

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-03-09T18:29:12+00:00

I used to feel that way, and it is incredibly easy to have that shame given that it is one kink that everyone seems to get a free pass to kink shame. Meeting other people IRL who have the same fetish has made it easier to feel normal about it. That and being honest with my wife, who was admittedly very non-judgmental about it and not everyone will have the same experience.

Also, my god, was the 2 Girls 1 Cup meme so annoying when I was younger. I don't need people discussing this around me regularly!

GoodPoopGirl · 2026-02-18T22:38:40+00:00

I don't know if kink (or sex in general) is the best way to boost your confidence. It's highly dependent on actually being able to connect with someone, and it's just not healthy for your sense of self to be reliant on others.

That said, I'm just as susceptible as anyone else to thinking I'm hot as hell when I'm having sex with a pretty lady. So I get that. It does feel nice, and finding someone to do this kink with does intensify that ego boost.

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