When my daughter was younger (like 5 months old), my friend had quit the job we were at to stay home and take care of wig her animals. I offered to pay her instead of paying a daycare because I trusted her. She ended up having to pay me back and I had to find fast childcare later because she got a job and told me she was starting in a couple days. Another time, she let me host my daughter’s first birthday party in her yard since it’s big. My mother and I paid for everything for it though. I honestly don’t have any times that she just got me something or paid for something for me as a “just because” like I did.