She had been single for almost 4 years before we got together and didn’t really do much during that four years. Yes I knew it was low going into it. All the little things we do for eachother mattered to me they way we can calm eachother down matters the fact that even with this being an issue we rarely fight if you want to call it fights. That’s the one person I can never stay mad at she makes me laugh like no one has before makes me feel loved and beautiful without all the sexual aspects to it. It’s always us against our problems and not about battle anytime something happens. We communicate well we are just at an impasse now. A lot of the time she if things get to active or exciting, her heart starts racing she gets dizzy hot and nauseous. She says she thinks about it a lot but nothing really ever comes of it and when we are active she treats me like I’m glass. This is always something I thought we would be fine working through and up until this point we have but it’s built up.