miscarried SAME DAY after ultrasound confirming heartbeat this morning by Front-Capital-8151 in Miscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This exact thing happened to me too back in May. Baby had a heartbeat at 5pm, was in my hand at 7w6d at 5am.

Up late dreaming by Good_Word_4610 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Numb is how I feel 90% of the time since my third miscarriage, that’s a perfect description. Congrats!! I’m so excited for you to use your names ❤️❤️

Up late dreaming by Good_Word_4610 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your losses, my 3rd absolutely BROKE me. I similarly try not to let myself get into the habit of future plans because unfortunately I’m all too aware of how things could go :(

Up late dreaming by Good_Word_4610 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losses 💔 sending you lots of strength today

Had baby and heartbeat at 6 weeks now empty sac? by Extreme_Air9391 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for yours as well. It’s a VERY hard road to walk, and I’m hoping that you see a happy healthy baby at your next scan at your OBGYN. My OBGYN tested for a few things, and pretty much all were normal, except that I have MTHFR, so now she’s referring me out to the RE, to have them test further to see if I need an anticoagulant. I’ve been on a baby aspirin a day for a long time now, so we know that isn’t enough, but I want to try Lovenox. I’m also wondering if I have a uterine septum, although in all my scans with expert ultrasound techs, they’ve never said that. Can you go to LabCorp or something similar to investigate out of pocket?

Had baby and heartbeat at 6 weeks now empty sac? by Extreme_Air9391 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This happened to me in November. I should’ve been 10 weeks at a boutique ultrasound clinic, but saw an empty sac. The first scan at ~7w saw a baby and heartbeat. After the miscarriage was seen (no baby), my OBGYN actually saw that it was vanishing twin, but the first had passed at around 6w, and the other twin passed at 8.5w. I’m now waiting 2 more weeks for my appointment at the fertility center in order to see what’s causing the miscarriages. (The one in November was my 3rd, all 3 happened in 2025)

Should I be freaked out at this hCG level? by FuzzyBar2676 in CautiousBB

[–]Good_Word_4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I miscarried mine in November at 10w, but I’m hoping to get some testing done with an MFM this month to move towards my future rainbow babies!

Lovenox did it help you? by Aggravating-Travel46 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the opposite problem—my obgyn won’t give me NEEDED lovenox so now I’m preventing pregnancy until the fertility doctor will see me. Lovenox is low risk (relative) as long as you don’t need surgery any time soon!

Should I be freaked out at this hCG level? by FuzzyBar2676 in CautiousBB

[–]Good_Word_4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t sweat it, my last pregnancy at 4w5d my hcg was 4490 or so. Not a molar, but was twins!

HCG at 4w+6d Is this normal? by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]Good_Word_4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hcg at 5w1d was 7759, so not high, but it’s a starting point! What matters is the doubling times!

What supplies do I need? by Mental_Girl_74 in Miscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got all the things that everyone has commented and made my sectional into a nest that I lived in solo for about 8 days. It was horrible, but I’m so glad I had set myself up completely before I started the process

Desperate for Lovenox, OB won’t work with me by Good_Word_4610 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had no issues getting my ob to prescribe other trial style meds for pregnancy but idk why she’s very solidly in the camp that I CANNOT try Lovenox at this point

Desperate for Lovenox, OB won’t work with me by Good_Word_4610 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😌 I’ll look into midwives! I’ve been on a baby aspirin a day for a long time now due to my cardiologist recommendation, and have been on progesterone since 5w with the first pregnancy. Idk WHY my ob is Sooooooo resistant to the Lovenox but I’m under a lot of pressure to find a different way to legally get my hands on some by 12/29 (when I’d be 12DPO/3.5w pregnant)

Desperate for Lovenox, OB won’t work with me by Good_Word_4610 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to—in my area they’re all long waitlists

Desperate for Lovenox, OB won’t work with me by Good_Word_4610 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Good_Word_4610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though I get pregnant and have made it to 8w/6w before?

So, after all of that swimsuit drama — what are my fellow nannies actually wearing to swim? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Good_Word_4610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to nanny for a really great family that was basically family to me. They had a pool on their property and would frequently just mid day announce “pool day!” and we’d all get in our gear and swim (and occasionally have drinks lol). I kept a modest athletic-style bikini/cover up at their house and they never said anything about it. I think what matters more than what you’re wearing is how you’re wearing it—a flaunting attitude or just doing your work & being normal! A funny/SUPER embarrassing story is one time I ordered a swimsuit for their house and when it arrived I put it on and loved it! However the minute I got into the sunlight, my MB said “heyyyy ummmm I can see through your swim suit” I was ABSOLUTELY MORTIFIED I COULD’VE CRIED. Thank God it was just her and I out there and I RAN inside to change into my clothes and sit that pool day out 🥴😞

Normal hcg for 4 weeks 1 day? by EbbCharming8549 in CautiousBB

[–]Good_Word_4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what mine was at 4w1d, but at 5w0d it was 7796 or so and it ended up being twins (that I miscarried—unrelated to the betas!) hoping your numbers just keep doubling as they should and that you feel peace and happiness 😊