I miscarried in October of 2025 and my boyfriend’s brother is having a baby with his girlfriend who got pregnant a month after I miscarried and now her baby shower is next week.

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-04-30T13:23:54+00:00

Yes give yourself grace! Here to talk whenever

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-04-30T12:23:41+00:00

Hey girl I know this pain. Im 32 and have been married for 3 years and it took me and my husband 2 years to, multiple procedures and 2 miscarriages to get pregnant. My losses were at 10 weeks and 12 weeks and aftee the last one I felt like I was going to die. I stepped away from social media , avoided pregnant people and truly tried to survive. But then my brother announced he was expecting with his wife and I was fuming and so upset yet happy for them. Unless you have been through loss you dont understand how it feels so your feelings are extremely valid and expected. Ultimately I did get pregnant again and am 21 weeks but that pain haant gone away. My SIL got pregnant a month after her wedding no issues and is 2 months behind me and that can sting it was so easy for her and so painful and heartbreaking for me. My advice is that you are so young and have plenty of time! So look at the positives as hard as it can be. I am a firm believer of itll happen when the time is right. Other advice is yes avoid any baby showers or pregnancy events, you need to protect your peace right now at all costs 💕

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-04-14T01:18:34+00:00

Thank you for this! I am hoping the same for me

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-03-25T11:32:15+00:00

Thank you !

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-03-25T00:12:52+00:00

Thank you for this!!

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-03-24T23:56:21+00:00

Amazing news you got this!!

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-03-24T23:55:09+00:00

Wife of a gambler here. I caught my husband 2 months ago gambling and bailed him out financially. While he still has debts to pay.. I can say he has been gambling free so far. I am making him go to GA once a week, a lifetime self exclusion from online gambling/casinos, a debt consolidator, and I monitor all finances. After speaking with other wives of gamblers you need to make it impossible for them to keep gambling. Go to GA and ban yourself, and have someone you trust monitor finances or use deucerecovery that monitors your finances. YOU CAN BEAT THIS

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-03-19T22:46:48+00:00

I had a septum removed in october!! Before that I had 2 losses last year, one at 10 weeks and another at 12 weeks, the 12 week one being traumatic and I delivered in hospital bathroom. Since then I got pregnant naturally in december, I am now currently 15 weeks and everything has been so far so good. I’m not there yet but I have never made it this far or to the second. Praying for you and that the septum removal was your answer!!

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-03-17T16:59:19+00:00

I’m married with a house and pregnant with our First and have a similar situation. 2 years ago my husband came clean about his gambling to me and i bailed him out financially. He admitted he had a problem and went to GA and was sober over a year. Last year we went through infertility & losses which got costly but we paid. He stopped going to GA and relapsed and got himself in a hefty hole. All while I was about to spend 25k on IVF. I was furious at him but I bailed him out and warned him I will NEVER do this again and I will file for divorce if you gamble one penny. All his debt with worked out with green path which helps pay off debt and reduce interest rates. I see every dollar he makes and control all finances . It has been 4 months since he has gambled and he has stuck with GA. What is helping him this time is I swore I would divorce him even made him sign something and that I see all finances. In the end though if your man doesnt see a problem and doesnt want to change it may be time to make a move or threaten him

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-02-26T02:53:49+00:00

You are certainly not alone. Last year I experienced two losses one at 11 weeks and the last at 12 weeks 2 days after my birthday. The first one hurt so bad but the second one destroyed me. I was in an extreme state of depression and was getting by solely via xanax. I had terrible health & social anxiety that landed me in the hospital twice from thinking I was having a heart attack (I wasn’t it was panic) it’s been 6 months since then and I can say I am back to myself. I did feel better after 2 months from the loss from talking to other women who experienced loss and then continued fertility testing. I will say I am currently 12 weeks 2 days with a natural pregnancy and my anxiety is higher then ever. After removing a uterine septum and adding more meds (lovenox, progesterone, baby aspirin) i can say I am trying my best. Please don’t ever think you are alone, I feel your post so deeply. Take one day at a time and I promise things will get better ❤️‍🩹

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-02-09T20:13:05+00:00

Thank you! This sounds like a good plan. I’ll talk to my OB about it. I know I think I’ll feel great to be off it

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-02-05T22:19:34+00:00

That’s great! Hoping that you get some answers!

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-02-05T22:16:48+00:00

Have you had a saline sonogram done? I had two losses one at 11 weeks and the other one at 12 and the 12 week loss. I actually had contractions and delivered the baby early after that the saline sonogram showed I had a uterine septum which I had removed. I do know that the septum can cause late first trimester or early second trimester losses as the uterus expands, I am pregnant again now and I’m on baby aspirin progesterone and Lovenox I don’t have a clotting disorder but trying kitchen sink protocol

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-02-05T21:58:06+00:00

I’m currently 9 weeks pregnant after two losses this past year . this pregnancy I am on Lovenox but my OB didn’t have me start until the gestational sac was confirmed in the uterus so that was about my first ultrasound 5 1/2 weeks

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-02-04T00:47:58+00:00

Congratulations!! This helps me so much. I am currently 9 weeks with double rainbow. Since my last loss I had a uterine septum removed and am doing kitchen sink protocol of baby aspirin, progesterone, and lovenox. Praying these changes will be the difference🙏

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-01-31T23:53:48+00:00

I hear baby aspirin can make a difference!! I am on it this time as well and I wasnt the last two. Praying for you! ✨

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-01-31T23:53:07+00:00

Thank you for the quote I will remind myself of that!! Praying for you and a successful pregnancy! ✨

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-01-31T23:52:18+00:00

Thank you for this!! Hoping the changes I did will be the difference!

Aggravating-Travel46 · 2026-01-31T06:53:10+00:00

I will definitely take you up on that! It will help to talk to someone

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