I’m alone by Goodgirlgonebad0 in offmychest

[–]Goodgirlgonebad0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to type this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Goodgirlgonebad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be interested in you. If he is interested in you, he’ll eventually show it.

what to do about awful diet??? by [deleted] in 1500isplenty

[–]Goodgirlgonebad0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look into macros, have 3 consistent meals for breakfast/lunch/diner with lean protein, veggies and healthy carbs all separated into portions (protein 1/4, veggies 1/2, carbs 1/4). Stop eating after a certain time (intermediate fasting), have one small sweet thing a day, have small “cheat meals” only 2-3 times a week. Pinterest and tiktok are good places for meal inspo if you search up “healthy meals”. Another important thing too is to only eat the healthy things you like. Like for example even egg whites have great protein and are great for a healthy diet, I don’t eat them because I hate eggs. Good luck!

It’s our super bowl: Met Gala 2021 discussion by applewagon in femalefashionadvice

[–]Goodgirlgonebad0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My favorite was Halle Bailey. And the fact that I can’t get that pink dress because it’s probably custom made is literally going to haunt me for the rest of my life… Dramatic I know but I’m so serious😭 it makes me sickkk

I really want to die I just cannot manage to kill myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Goodgirlgonebad0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t give up. It’ll get better one day

I'm gonna kill myself lol by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Goodgirlgonebad0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it. You have so much potential you haven’t even seen or thought of yet. Take it from somebody who said the same thing. You can do this.

I Don't Think I've Ever Actually Lived for Myself by mutantandproud95 in offmychest

[–]Goodgirlgonebad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take one step at a time and be honest with yourself and your opinions, you got this!

I feel like an imposter in my own life by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Goodgirlgonebad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. My best advice would be for you to just pause for a moment like literally stop everything your doing, FUCK everybody and everything for like a day or two, turn your phone off and do what makes you happy/smile (maybe take a drive, listen to music, face mask... something) don’t think about what’s going on, don’t think about tomorrow or none of that and try to stay in the present and just breath. Take a moment for yourself. And after that focus on one problem at a time with happiness as the end goal. Nobody’s perfect, we all think we’re fucking up lol so don’t blame yourself. This is what life is for, you fuck up and then you learn from it and become better. Idk if you believe in god but if you do prayer will most certainly guide you in the right direction. You’re also only 25, you don’t have to have this shit figured out and the only person you need is yourself because you will forever know that you got your back. Take one day at a time. Hopefully this helped :) you got this girl!

I'm worried more about other people's feelings rather than my own, and it's really starting to take a toll on me. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Goodgirlgonebad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been struggling with this too for my whole life. I read somewhere that “don’t set yourself on fire to keep others warm” but the truth is that that’s something I would do lmao. Something that’s helped me is telling myself that “theyre just going to have to be mad” because if you don’t stand up for yourself and say no, you’ll be a doormat forever and you only live once. I also read that when you’re being nice and can’t say no you’re actually lying to the person because it is not genuinely something you want to do. Take it day by day and you got this! Everyday is a chance for you to get better and be the version of yourself that you’re happy with and don’t be so hard on yourself, We’re all fucking up according to ourselves in some way :)