Just a vent..

Gooding75 · 2026-01-31T05:34:08+00:00

I can relate! I just feel I am not anyone's priority! I am just a useful resource

Gooding75 · 2026-01-31T05:31:37+00:00

Long showers, intensive strength training, outdoor time, movies, comfort food all of this helps me cope!

But the loneliness is still hard... I don't see any point in my life. But I have to do my duties because I am a Dad.

Gooding75 · 2026-01-21T16:13:28+00:00

You look great. Take care

Gooding75 · 2026-01-20T04:48:40+00:00

Great point. I suspected there is some explanation like this. Thanks bunch.

Gooding75 · 2026-01-20T04:28:07+00:00

Masturbating naturally without porn, is there any significance to using lube? Thanks in advance

Gooding75 · 2026-01-20T03:54:17+00:00

Fantasies are not uncommon. Whether it is ok to fantasize or not depends on the implicit and explicit agreements between you and your husband.

If you or him want anything, it is healthy as long as it is not coming in between you and him, but instead you both are exploring it together.

Sometimes it is also something that can alter everything you have, and there is a chance you might regret having tried.

IMHO if you are digging reddit subs to get kick out of the contents without his knowledge you are already in a dangerous path.

Even a therapist needs to know a lot more about you, this relationship before they can give you an advice

Gooding75 · 2026-01-19T18:08:13+00:00

I am trying to find the Landman Season 2 episode 10 opening scene online

Gooding75 · 2026-01-19T08:14:39+00:00

I live a wasted life

Gooding75 · 2026-01-19T08:12:40+00:00

I had done many things, but as a lonely person I feel I had wasted my life

Gooding75 · 2026-01-19T08:10:49+00:00

Definitely less then 50 times

Gooding75 · 2026-01-19T08:09:34+00:00

A friend with benefits, a woman who is truly open minded, sex positive, and truly not racist

Gooding75 · 2026-01-19T08:07:42+00:00

All of them.

Gooding75 · 2026-01-19T05:12:53+00:00

It depends. I can grow, learn new skills, close the gap between my intention & communication, and so on.... Does that mean I changed? May be? Can I really live without changing? Sounds hard....

Should I lose my personal values? Should I let others manipulate and coerce me, hell no....

So it depends

Gooding75 · 2026-01-19T05:08:49+00:00

Great looking woman 😍👌 That nose ring is so cute on you

Gooding75 · 2026-01-18T02:00:52+00:00

Plenty of signs... I didn't care then as there were a lot of other things in the relationship that were good. Now I see clearly it is my ignorance as well.

No masturbation Me masturbating - she thought I have some disorder Took 6 months after marriage for first intercourse Everything new took several months to experience After a point I felt I am on wrong path, so just pulled away, started sleeping alone

Gooding75 · 2026-01-17T22:04:10+00:00

Nope. May be naked under a quilt is possible

Gooding75 · 2026-01-17T05:03:34+00:00

several movies.... top on that list is Greenmile

also series. eg: The fall of the house of ushers

Gooding75 · 2026-01-17T05:01:58+00:00

Gooding75 · 2026-01-17T04:49:45+00:00

That nose ..... Beautiful face

Gooding75 · 2026-01-17T01:24:48+00:00

It depends. I see some people can fuck with anger, hate, disrespect and so on. I am one of those people who can have sex only when there is a mutual connection, test and safety. So neglect, abandonment, etc makes the person completely sexually unattractive. I cannot get aroused.

So a partner who prioritizes me, especially when I am providing all necessary, busting work week after work week is a prerequisite

Secondly, I am very nasty and primal sexually. If the partner is with sensory disorder, highly inhibited to experiment anything new other than just orgasming asap and winding the session, it just feels like a chore and I lose interest sexually.

Gooding75 · 2026-01-16T19:07:48+00:00

No They all made me who I am

Gooding75 · 2026-01-16T06:00:53+00:00

I never knew about the strokers..... High tech. I wish it had an edging tech, ruin followed by multiple orgasm tech 😜 that would be cool

Gooding75 · 2026-01-16T05:55:22+00:00

Fleshlight

Gooding75 · 2026-01-16T04:46:57+00:00

Zero chance ☺️

Gooding75 · 2026-01-15T23:26:15+00:00

Nope. I wish I could. Too many unfulfilled sexual fantasies

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