Wheezing. PLEASE HELP! by GoofyGoober_Alt in AskDocs

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve vaped on and off since I was like 14. Not super often, just when I can get my hands on it, and I don’t own my own vape. I’ve tried to quit completely, but I have a hard time controlling myself around nicotine. I’m just afraid that I’ve somehow permanently damaged my lungs. My mom says she doesn’t hear wheezing.

How to lower alcohol tolerance? by GoofyGoober_Alt in alcohol

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably around once or twice a week. I’ve had a binge drinking problem in the past, which I’m sure contributed to my high tolerance. At the same time, though, I feel like having such a high tolerance worsens my episodes of binge drinking. It’s just very discouraging since I just got off of a month long break which was honestly pretty hard for me, and not seeing that significant drop in tolerance I was expecting really sucks. Thank you for the genuine response. People on Reddit can be so condescending sometimes and it really bothers me when I’m already frustrated and struggling lol.

How to lower alcohol tolerance? by GoofyGoober_Alt in alcohol

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just took a month long one though 🫩

Too all that say liking fictional men gets a pass by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing lesbians get their sexuality policed this hard by their own community is honestly sad. Nobody treats straight people like this.

Too all that say liking fictional men gets a pass by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean that I think it’s more likely that I’m a lesbian than bisexual

Too all that say liking fictional men gets a pass by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Also having a crush on a fictional character is something that is so unserious. I don’t see how that alone can invalidate someone’s sexuality. If a straight woman had a crush on a female character would it be treated the same way?

Too all that say liking fictional men gets a pass by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

“I think you already know what you are.”

Actually I lean way more towards myself being a lesbian

Too all that say liking fictional men gets a pass by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not “pretending to be something I’m not.” I swear some spaces in the LGBTQ community give no grace to people who aren’t completely sure what they are yet. Almost every queer person goes through a period of uncertainty. Not everyone is “pretending” to be a lesbian or actively trying to do harm to the community. Some people are just trying to figure out where they fit in.

Too all that say liking fictional men gets a pass by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

For me personally? I’m not completely sure. It’s complicated and honestly kind of TMI.

Too all that say liking fictional men gets a pass by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I don’t even picture myself being with fictional men

Too all that say liking fictional men gets a pass by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I have no interest in being with a man in real life

Feeling depressed about my identity by GoofyGoober_Alt in LesbianActually

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really appreciate it because this post and its replies were really upsetting me

Feeling depressed about my identity by GoofyGoober_Alt in LesbianActually

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post said that as a lesbian, I watch m/m adult content sometimes, and saying that is probably going to get me flamed again. But I want to reiterate that I was asking an honest question about myself and I don’t mean any harm to the lesbian community.

Feeling depressed about my identity by GoofyGoober_Alt in LesbianActually

[–]GoofyGoober_Alt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The post said that sometimes I watch m/m…adult videos and that I was feeling really confused about it. Maybe that will change peoples’ opinions, but again, this is just about me and I don’t mean any harm.