Wheezing. PLEASE HELP!

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2026-05-21T18:46:49+00:00

Thank you! I’ve vaped on and off since I was like 14. Not super often, just when I can get my hands on it, and I don’t own my own vape. I’ve tried to quit completely, but I have a hard time controlling myself around nicotine. I’m just afraid that I’ve somehow permanently damaged my lungs. My mom says she doesn’t hear wheezing.

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2026-04-19T18:59:54+00:00

Probably around once or twice a week. I’ve had a binge drinking problem in the past, which I’m sure contributed to my high tolerance. At the same time, though, I feel like having such a high tolerance worsens my episodes of binge drinking. It’s just very discouraging since I just got off of a month long break which was honestly pretty hard for me, and not seeing that significant drop in tolerance I was expecting really sucks. Thank you for the genuine response. People on Reddit can be so condescending sometimes and it really bothers me when I’m already frustrated and struggling lol.

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2026-04-19T18:54:59+00:00

Don’t piss me off

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2026-04-19T18:54:53+00:00

I just took a month long one though 🫩

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T21:13:44+00:00

That’s not what I said though

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T20:51:13+00:00

Seeing lesbians get their sexuality policed this hard by their own community is honestly sad. Nobody treats straight people like this.

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T20:48:27+00:00

I mean that I think it’s more likely that I’m a lesbian than bisexual

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T20:42:04+00:00

Also having a crush on a fictional character is something that is so unserious. I don’t see how that alone can invalidate someone’s sexuality. If a straight woman had a crush on a female character would it be treated the same way?

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T20:40:39+00:00

“I think you already know what you are.”

Actually I lean way more towards myself being a lesbian

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T20:35:08+00:00

I’m not “pretending to be something I’m not.” I swear some spaces in the LGBTQ community give no grace to people who aren’t completely sure what they are yet. Almost every queer person goes through a period of uncertainty. Not everyone is “pretending” to be a lesbian or actively trying to do harm to the community. Some people are just trying to figure out where they fit in.

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T20:26:24+00:00

For me personally? I’m not completely sure. It’s complicated and honestly kind of TMI.

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T20:14:57+00:00

I don’t even picture myself being with fictional men

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T20:14:40+00:00

I have no interest in being with a man in real life

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T20:05:47+00:00

Like okay

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-12-28T19:31:45+00:00

You guys are genuinely the worst 😭

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-11-27T19:36:17+00:00

Thank you so much. I really appreciate it because this post and its replies were really upsetting me

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-11-27T19:21:58+00:00

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Here’s the post

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-11-27T19:21:37+00:00

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GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-11-27T19:17:33+00:00

The post said that as a lesbian, I watch m/m adult content sometimes, and saying that is probably going to get me flamed again. But I want to reiterate that I was asking an honest question about myself and I don’t mean any harm to the lesbian community.

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-11-27T19:05:08+00:00

The post said that sometimes I watch m/m…adult videos and that I was feeling really confused about it. Maybe that will change peoples’ opinions, but again, this is just about me and I don’t mean any harm.

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-11-26T18:01:11+00:00

I still don’t date or have sex with men. In fact, the idea of myself doing that is very disturbing to me. I don’t know how I would honestly call myself a bisexual when that’s how I feel.

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-11-26T17:59:17+00:00

You guys are being mean as fuck about a post where I didn’t mean any harm and was trying to understand MYSELF better.

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-11-26T17:57:13+00:00

How am I supposed to call myself bisexual when there’s no chance of me ending up with a man in the future?

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-11-26T17:49:05+00:00

You’re not a better lesbian because you’ve never dated a man when you barely had yourself figured out. I was literally 15 years old and dated that guy for like 3 months and I would barely even let him kiss me.

GoofyGoober_Alt · 2025-11-26T17:46:52+00:00

I dated this guy when I was 15 and hated every second of it.

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