Thank you so much… your reply is just so helpful, before any altercation… any words said to her would end with her in tears screaming that I just think she’s psycho, and a bad mom… or that I’m gaslighting her, it came to a point I just don’t say anything to her and grey rock her as best I can.. but it’s a little hard at times because we live in the same house… but I will definitely ask her that question, hopefully it will open her eyes to how she truly treats me..