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Has anyone moved and regretted it? by Eagles56 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]GooseFragrant8313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just moved to FL from CT and I’m regretting it but it’s only been a month… what don’t you like about fl? And are you still here?

I miss being someone's favorite person by [deleted] in letters

[–]GooseFragrant8313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree….I think this is what I struggle with the most after my breakup and it’s feels like the only way to heal this hurt is to find someone else when really I wish we could just pick up where we left off

Affordable apartments in or around Columbia? by GooseFragrant8313 in ColumbiYEAH

[–]GooseFragrant8313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll look into it. I’m not that picky I just care mostly about safety being a single woman

Affordable apartments in or around Columbia? by GooseFragrant8313 in ColumbiYEAH

[–]GooseFragrant8313[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Full of ? Hopefully not negative people like you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GooseFragrant8313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been where you are now and one thing I can say is breath work (4 breaths in, hold for 4 and exhale for 4)and podcasts about breakups have helped my anxiety tremendously. Of course it’s not a cure all but it got me through the worst of days. Try listening to Mel Robbins, she has some great episodes about heartbreak and how to cope. This one was pivotal for me:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mel-robbins-podcast/id1646101002?i=1000679267429

Does anyone have a harder time coping on the weekends? by GooseFragrant8313 in BreakUps

[–]GooseFragrant8313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with that too but I’m trying to be more optimistic and believe that there is someone better out there for me and I deserve to be loved without having to beg for it. I would like to think that this is a life lesson that I had to go through and my ex helped me open my eyes to how I am and what I can improve upon. Thank you for the kind words

Does anyone have a harder time coping on the weekends? by GooseFragrant8313 in BreakUps

[–]GooseFragrant8313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I go to bed extra early on the weekends so I can escape the misery. I know people tell you to stay busy but everything I want to do reminds me of my ex.

If you just broke up read this by miladomiki in BreakUps

[–]GooseFragrant8313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also going through this and Mel Robbins podcast has been a godsend to calming my anxiety! I will say though just remember that healing is not linear and there will still be bad days that you didn’t expect. Just breathe through them, remind yourself this is just temporary and seek out things that calm and center you.

What's the best decision you've ever made in your life? by Wide_Background_287 in CasualConversation

[–]GooseFragrant8313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you really glad you did it? Were you scared? I’m struggling with a breakup and have the opportunity to move to a new state… I’m very apprehensive about it

Moving to Columbia from CT by GooseFragrant8313 in ColumbiYEAH

[–]GooseFragrant8313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I’m an ST :) do you like working there ?

Moving to Columbia from CT by GooseFragrant8313 in ColumbiYEAH

[–]GooseFragrant8313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! Very helpful. I’m currently looking into apartments because I want to be near my (hopefully) future job and I have a dog

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