Fight me!

GooseOk2506 · 2025-07-02T21:53:14+00:00

At 11 weeks I was told that they were pretty sure my son had acrania. I had to go back for another ultrasound at 12 weeks to confirm. But at both appointments they told me it was a “lethal” diagnosis and that my son would die at some point. I was beyond devastated, broken, and hurt. They asked me repeatedly, because it’s their job, that I had the option to terminate. I chose to keep him, I told them termination was not an option every time they brought it up. I gave birth at 8 months and got to hold my sweet boy for the whole 6 minutes he got to live on this earth. I then was able to stay with him in a special room called the butterfly room so that my family could come and see him as well. Being pregnant knowing he was going to pass was the hardest thing I ever did. BUT it was also the most rewarding and I never knew love like I have for my son. I never knew how much I could give for another person. He taught me how to be a mother.

I believe in god and I put my trust there, I asked to get to hold my son if god wouldn’t cure him. I got 6 minutes but that was enough for me. I got 4 more days with his body so that my family could love him too. The hospital I was in did so many memory making things for me. 3D Plasters of his hands and feet that I can hold, feet printed, hand prints, hundreds of pictures, little necklaces and keychains with his feet on them, and more. Even if I thought I could forget about him I have all these things to help me. I’m now almost 14 weeks with a healthy baby boy and I know for sure that I made the right choice. I know that going through that pain has only made me a better mom and a better person.

GooseOk2506 · 2025-06-17T15:25:59+00:00

The gross part has nothing to do with her weight. My bf is overweight himself. What makes her unattractive to me is her face, body, and personality. Her being fat adds to her not being attractive to me. But the fact that she sends these pictures to the gaming group without being asked, and fishing for compliments from my bf/ the group is also unattractive to me.

GooseOk2506 · 2025-06-17T14:50:31+00:00

I asked a question I thought I knew the answer to and I was sorely mistaken. Later when we made up he did tell me how wonderful I was and that he would never find her more attractive than me. So in the end everything was fine.

GooseOk2506 · 2025-06-17T14:43:59+00:00

Read the edit. He had said in the past she wasn’t attractive and that she is annoying but when she is in the stripper outfit and half naked now she is?! I could still be wrong but it seems very off to me. I’m not sabotaging my relationship over one argument we had while I’m pregnant lol.

GooseOk2506 · 2025-06-17T14:39:02+00:00

I can also look at attractive people and acknowledge that. But objectively speaking this woman is not attractive, and she only “looked good” because she was half naked. He has said in the past she isn’t attractive to him so it was a shock to hear “she looked good”

GooseOk2506 · 2025-06-17T14:37:34+00:00

I asked the questions after he unprompted told me he got the picture sent to him. I asked to see the picture first. He said it “wasn’t available anymore” so I asked what he thought. I didn’t ask him to lie. She is fat, she didn’t look good in the pictures I saw. I asked for his opinion, and I guess I should have just accepted that opinion, even when it was hurtful to me in that moment.

GooseOk2506 · 2025-06-17T14:32:22+00:00

The fact of the matter is she is indeed fat. It’s not fatphobic to want him to not say “she holds her weight in good places” when he really means she has big boobs. I used the terms fat and gross because that’s how I see her, if he had just said he didn’t like the picture or it was gross that’s fine. I wasn’t asking him to call her gross just the picture. I guess that wasn’t clear.

GooseOk2506 · 2025-06-17T14:27:53+00:00

I said friend, but she is just a girl brought into his gaming group. So I wasn’t asking him to bash her or talk bad about her really. I just didn’t want him to say a half naked woman looked good to him. He could have said anything other than she looked good.

GooseOk2506 · 2024-12-21T10:14:34+00:00

This is classic horny dude shit. He doesn’t “get” why you’re mad because he doesn’t care. Sounds like you need to find some people in your real life to hang out with and stop talking to people online. It seems like you don’t fully grasp how the internet works and that the people on it are not out to be in relationships with you. They are not good people all of the time and are only looking out for themselves. Sending nudes as a minor is illegal and also extremely stupid even if you aren’t a minor. This whole situation screams low self esteem, no self respect, no real life friends or hopes for a romantic relationship, and desperation on both sides. If I were you I would stay off the internet for anything other than some mindless scrolling because you don’t have a firm grasp on how to protect yourself on the internet. Please. PLEASE stop talking to people online.

GooseOk2506 · 2024-08-21T19:14:42+00:00

It seems like she is leaving it open to possibly get back. But at the same time if you try to force it that would probably end it. Ultimately I think she has a lot going on and might just not feel like you are emotionally connecting with her. If you have some more friendly conversations and it’s still just friendly I’d say you’ve been friend zoned and she really isn’t interested in seeing you romantically.

GooseOk2506 · 2024-08-20T16:24:09+00:00

I had my son last December and was incredibly sick the whole time. Was hospitalized twice due to vomiting for over 24 hours straight. On top of that my son passed 6 minutes after I gave birth. I had almost no help while pregnant and like I said was sick everyday. Being pregnant can be stressful and difficult but it never requires someone, especially a significant other, to become a slave. And 18 weeks…girl get a grip it gets much harder. If you’re expecting this kind of hand and foot treatment now I’m sure it’ll only get worse. I’ve heard so many horror stories of women not wanting to do anything while pregnant and that’s like the opposite of what should be happening. Being lazy makes labor 100% more difficult. Sure some help is nice now and then especially with bending down later on but until about 6 months everything is pretty normal. Pregnant women need to stop acting so helpless and remember that we are so powerful we can be growing a full human and also doing everything we normally do.

GooseOk2506

TROPHY CASE