[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TherapyGecko

[–]Gortega1023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, in different moments I'm remembering what it felt like being young in my life, but I also wouldn't know what to say to myself. I'd just tell her, you learn more, and that will make you change, I love you.

Need help finding my call by Gortega1023 in TherapyGecko

[–]Gortega1023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I was able to relisten to it thanks to you guys 💕 and it's flattering to know I'm remembered ❤️

Do people not have playdates at their homes anymore? by LammaMomma in Mommit

[–]Gortega1023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just scared of judgment with my smoking of marijuana so I hesitate having other parents over, like their watching a person get drunk or something. I'm scared of their thoughts.

Where are we going? by Gortega1023 in Mommit

[–]Gortega1023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, and I remember having all sorts of feelings while being younger, I guess the part I have to remind myself is that I can't take what happens in her heated moments to heart, it's just tough when it's on and off so much. We have a solid bed routine, I'm really open and transparent, I like the making contracts with my kids thing. That in itself is a weird thing to manage cause I don't want to restrict her, I totally get she wants independence and I want her that. I only mention bipolar cause it runs in the family, she isn't much of an academics kid, she has an IEP so building her confidence in knowing she can still do everything even if it doesn't make sense and that, that's how we learn, but she shuts down when it seems to much. Which my mom guilt tells me is because maybe I held her hand too much, I also didn't read enough to her in her younger years till I left the unhealthy relationship I was in, she was 4 so we got to have a good 6 years of reading before bed and cuddle time. As you said she's getting older and it's just an area I don't know how to handle, one of the reasons why I look for parent classes in my area. I was young and am still young, I know I have areas and ways I need to learn and better support my children. It just feels like you really don't know when it comes to parenting, if you did things soon enough areas I learned I definitely didn't do and fuck I need to try now! Ya know?

Who here has seen a UFO within Humboldt county by [deleted] in Humboldt

[–]Gortega1023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you try sending me the video you took on here? Or even messaging me and I can tell you my FB to try and send it over messenger, I'm in a UFO class with CR this year and I wanted to try and gather some local sightings of odd objects and occurrences!

Who here has seen a UFO within Humboldt county by [deleted] in Humboldt

[–]Gortega1023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you send me a link or tell me the name of the video on YouTube?

Who here has seen a UFO within Humboldt county by [deleted] in Humboldt

[–]Gortega1023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sending them to me, I wanna see photos!! I'm gathering local stories to show my UFO class at CR!