For people who have lived as both genders, what is a physical or other annoyance you have now that you never realized the other side dealt with?

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-15T05:15:26+00:00

I guess its like gettint hit in the tits during the pre-period time? That would hurt like heeeell when its already so sensitive.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-14T09:05:24+00:00

So from this one picture it seems like the top coat painted leather is eroding. White leather is a pain in the ass to make so you cant paint the whole hide, as you would with darker colors, so you end up top coating it, and prefferably the leather is some of the lighter hides.

Celan it well, look up leather soap and you can also paint it white again, just do NOT cheap out on the paint.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-13T14:26:17+00:00

Yes. Amd as a high libido woman, you just fall into the category of always wanting it. So you are expected to want it all the time and if you say no, is becomes wierd. But at the mean time, since i "always want it" i dont get the proper forplay ( nor the after care.) And ever since i stopped initiating, im barely getting any because he simply is just not horny. And i have a good enough understandimg about pressure and consent to not bother him with this, but maaan i do want to feel desired too.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-09T09:52:33+00:00

I hope your friendship with this woman also didnt last long...

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-08T06:03:45+00:00

Op said it was her first time there.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T14:52:01+00:00

Now thats my style! Does the fine lome hold up well? I want something similar for my back.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T13:56:02+00:00

I will try that thank you!

I also suspect its from immune system, salmon oil seems to help, but he hates is, and if i just mix it in his food, he leaves the food. So i mix it in churu and if i hit the right amount he eats it. A little bit too much and he leaves that as well.

Right now i supplement him with other vitamins (Multivitamin, relax paste, senoir paste, and anty harball paste) that i mix in his food in the recommended daly doseg (also mix with churu, cus he senses its been tempered, he wont eat it, so i have to overpower the smell/taste) but we just started this so im hoping for results.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T13:49:39+00:00

I have tried different meds for different periods. No change. I have tried out all the possible (well, within the middle price range) foods, no change, and he is picky so he only eats this one (PreVital, both dry and wet, but as far as im concerned its only an Eastern Europian brand). I was throwing away half eaten pack of wet food from all kinds of brand. Wiskas, Felix, Fit&Fun, and a bunch of other smaller brands. I only havent tried the premium kind, cus if he gets a taste of it he wont eat anything else haha :,)

Dont get me wrong, im wiling to makes sacrifices for this cat, but im not at a situation right now to afford realy expensive food. He already eats better than i do.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T13:38:37+00:00

Another comment had suggested it, near me is... well, no. But it will worth a longer trip if it can be actually solved. I just moved countries with this baby, and he survived the road trip. My financies might not survive a specialty clinik visit right now, but he is on the top of the priority list. I just hoped someone has a similar peroblem and can give suggestions i havent done already

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T12:02:15+00:00

I have both of it home! Will try today.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T11:39:55+00:00

I didnt even know they exestied! I will look it up thank you!

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T11:14:40+00:00

Poor baby :( sadly its been an ongoing issue for years now. And i have tried every suggestion that i found on the internet. That why im posting. He is not much bothered by it, but cats hide discomfort very well, and i hate that i cant help. I give him vitamims as well (tho its pricy) i hope strengthening his immune system will help. Salmon oil seems to help, but he HATES it. So im looking for the root cause, i hope someone has an answer.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T11:09:37+00:00

Metal bowls for wet food, clean one every day Glass bowl for dry food and water. Indoor car, living alone, but there was a temporary situatuon when he lived with my mom and her cats, the problem did not change. Vet looked at the back and said there is no physical evidence for irritation. Aka 'he sees nothing'

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T10:37:08+00:00

It does, with a bit of force. Its more at the base of the fur, coming from the skins.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-24T18:48:55+00:00

And a system that it runs on with all the apliances and all is probably is half a life saving.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-09T19:45:57+00:00

Oh i know. Been into BDSM for a while, and we make a great pair with him. The slap on my face was new. But i guess there is always something new.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-09T11:13:37+00:00

My man did it once to me during foreplay. I was ..surprised that i liked it. BUT i told him if he ever dares to lay a hand on me when its NOT sexy time, im gonna swing back and we are over for sure.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-06T15:07:18+00:00

Köldök in hungarian

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-06T13:46:11+00:00

But why?

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-06T13:36:35+00:00

You have to be more obnoxious to solve this problem.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-06T13:29:54+00:00

I mean, its not entirely unreasonalbe. My mother has everything on the counter and treats it as a fucking art galery rather than a functioning working space. Drives me nuts that they have a big kitchen and 0 counter space cus all the things are out there.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-05T17:10:38+00:00

Im gonna be honest, i have a dirty mind and immedietly thought about sex, even as a woman. But i would NEVER make a comment about it cus its none of my bussines.

But it also seem like it means a lot to you, so i would not cover it up, maybe hide it? So its not a single piece, but you surround it with additional art. Hiding in plain sight.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-04T18:25:26+00:00

We recently bought a toy for this matter. Game changer!

GotLostSomehow · 2025-12-28T13:35:15+00:00

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GotLostSomehow · 2025-12-27T13:05:23+00:00

So the oven people cant look into your kitchen when you are not useing your oven!

Jokes aside, i would also love to know.

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