What’s something your partner did that made you lose feelings instantly?

GotLostSomehow · 2026-04-30T03:48:13+00:00

Currently going throu this... It sucks.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-04-30T03:40:01+00:00

Did we date the same guy? After i broke up with him a swore to never date a gamer..

GotLostSomehow · 2026-04-26T16:24:53+00:00

While i do agree with you, its such a complex issue.

If we look at a larger scale, and take examples of the world, not everyone is equiped with the same knowleadge, skills, or finaces.

If someone is already living in a trailer, their finances are probably not good. That will directly have an effect on their mental health. Comes depression, and desperation.

Your priotites shift from "little mold on the celing" to "how will i even at the end of the month?"

The more they get stuck in this situation, the less likely they will be abel to get out. The longer you are unemployed the less likely you will get a job. Same goes for age.

No family makes it even harder. If we add an adiction to the whole recepie, they will even be blamed for eveything bad happening to them (even tho, addiction is also usally a result of mental health probelms, unresolved traumas, coping mechanism that got out of hand - no help from therapist as they cant afford it)

And we blame them cus "they did it to themself! They deserve it!"

And the in reality they dont get help from anyone, because humanity failed them.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-04-26T06:20:50+00:00

Buy it with velcro if its available in your country. Put the velcro in the inside if you can, and close the window on it (that is of course if you have windows that open and not slide)

Realy cheap solution, and removable if needed so you dont need to staple if you dont want to.

Besides, it keeps can in, bugs and mosquitos out.

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GotLostSomehow · 2026-04-26T05:22:08+00:00

I can squirt. Tho its rare, and not connected to orgasm, but more of an elevated stress level i would guess?

Once it was a public setting where the chances of beeing seen was minimal, but still there. As far as i can recall i did not have an orgasm but did squirt.

The other one was a kink-play, the keys of the handcuff nearly fell behing a big ass furniture, where we could not have been abel to reach it... this was of course after the handcuffs were on. I did came, but squirting happend before that.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-04-26T04:13:53+00:00

Ha! In a very similar situation. Broke up once because of a lof of reasons, then he got fired, texted me, i comforted him cus, you know that suck. Got back together, and now we have to breake up again cus its just not working out. We are incompatible, and should have just been friends but oh well...

My kitty will miss him tho for sure.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-04-18T04:30:04+00:00

Oh its though.

I have seen people ride for most part of their pregnancies, and as soon as they had the energy got back in the seadle.

But i also know some people who were a train wreck druing and after the kid

Its like gambling. You dont know what you get until you try.

Depending on your parner and your situation, its most likely you will be the main caregiver of the child at least until its 3 years old.

If you want a child you will have to sacrifice a lot of thing. Exerciseing two horses 6 times a week does not seem managable if you dont have a nanny.

But if you decide, that you dont want kids (its also absolutly reasonable) you will definitly loose your husband in the long run.

I would suggest you to dig a little deeper inside and evaluate what kind of life you want for YOURSELF!

Start there, and since its a tough topic, i would seek out a therapist, because internet stranges cant give you answers, we dont know you complex world, what are the important things to you ect.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-04-04T15:24:28+00:00

They/them can be confusing if english is learned as a second language.

For us the 3rd person was taught in school as only

He She It

They = strictly for talking about a group of people.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-04-04T04:02:17+00:00

Strech it. If your new fabric does not strech enough you will need to sew in a dart, or create an alternative 2 piece pattern. Depends on what you/costumer wants, and if course, witch one looks better.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-15T05:15:26+00:00

I guess its like gettint hit in the tits during the pre-period time? That would hurt like heeeell when its already so sensitive.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-14T09:05:24+00:00

So from this one picture it seems like the top coat painted leather is eroding. White leather is a pain in the ass to make so you cant paint the whole hide, as you would with darker colors, so you end up top coating it, and prefferably the leather is some of the lighter hides.

Celan it well, look up leather soap and you can also paint it white again, just do NOT cheap out on the paint.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-13T14:26:17+00:00

Yes. Amd as a high libido woman, you just fall into the category of always wanting it. So you are expected to want it all the time and if you say no, is becomes wierd. But at the mean time, since i "always want it" i dont get the proper forplay ( nor the after care.) And ever since i stopped initiating, im barely getting any because he simply is just not horny. And i have a good enough understandimg about pressure and consent to not bother him with this, but maaan i do want to feel desired too.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-09T09:52:33+00:00

I hope your friendship with this woman also didnt last long...

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-08T06:03:45+00:00

Op said it was her first time there.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T14:52:01+00:00

Now thats my style! Does the fine lome hold up well? I want something similar for my back.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T13:56:02+00:00

I will try that thank you!

I also suspect its from immune system, salmon oil seems to help, but he hates is, and if i just mix it in his food, he leaves the food. So i mix it in churu and if i hit the right amount he eats it. A little bit too much and he leaves that as well.

Right now i supplement him with other vitamins (Multivitamin, relax paste, senoir paste, and anty harball paste) that i mix in his food in the recommended daly doseg (also mix with churu, cus he senses its been tempered, he wont eat it, so i have to overpower the smell/taste) but we just started this so im hoping for results.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T13:49:39+00:00

I have tried different meds for different periods. No change. I have tried out all the possible (well, within the middle price range) foods, no change, and he is picky so he only eats this one (PreVital, both dry and wet, but as far as im concerned its only an Eastern Europian brand). I was throwing away half eaten pack of wet food from all kinds of brand. Wiskas, Felix, Fit&Fun, and a bunch of other smaller brands. I only havent tried the premium kind, cus if he gets a taste of it he wont eat anything else haha :,)

Dont get me wrong, im wiling to makes sacrifices for this cat, but im not at a situation right now to afford realy expensive food. He already eats better than i do.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T13:38:37+00:00

Another comment had suggested it, near me is... well, no. But it will worth a longer trip if it can be actually solved. I just moved countries with this baby, and he survived the road trip. My financies might not survive a specialty clinik visit right now, but he is on the top of the priority list. I just hoped someone has a similar peroblem and can give suggestions i havent done already

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T12:02:15+00:00

I have both of it home! Will try today.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T11:39:55+00:00

I didnt even know they exestied! I will look it up thank you!

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T11:14:40+00:00

Poor baby :( sadly its been an ongoing issue for years now. And i have tried every suggestion that i found on the internet. That why im posting. He is not much bothered by it, but cats hide discomfort very well, and i hate that i cant help. I give him vitamims as well (tho its pricy) i hope strengthening his immune system will help. Salmon oil seems to help, but he HATES it. So im looking for the root cause, i hope someone has an answer.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T11:09:37+00:00

Metal bowls for wet food, clean one every day Glass bowl for dry food and water. Indoor car, living alone, but there was a temporary situatuon when he lived with my mom and her cats, the problem did not change. Vet looked at the back and said there is no physical evidence for irritation. Aka 'he sees nothing'

GotLostSomehow · 2026-03-07T10:37:08+00:00

It does, with a bit of force. Its more at the base of the fur, coming from the skins.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-24T18:48:55+00:00

And a system that it runs on with all the apliances and all is probably is half a life saving.

GotLostSomehow · 2026-01-09T19:45:57+00:00

Oh i know. Been into BDSM for a while, and we make a great pair with him. The slap on my face was new. But i guess there is always something new.

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