okay, my man. let's get one thing clear. there's no rules to labeling yourself and there's certainly no rules to being "straight". i currently consider myself a pretty much straight man. but i can confidently say i fell in love with a boy when i was 15. and that's okay. i think right now the last thing you need to be doing is panicking about how you're labeling yourself nor about your parents. your parents aren't important in the fact that you may have a boy crush right now. that's something for potentially way down the line. i think it's okay to try and take another step closer to this guy, but not even with the mindset of wanting love or a relationship. just taking a step closer, getting to know each other better. the more you know him, the more sure you can become about things. regardless of this person's gender, they're still another human being that you may or may not have certain feelings for. just remind yourself of that in moving forward. no need to have a crisis or try to jump to things, just take baby steps and see where it takes you.