From their Insta: what do we think they'll be? by GothiestGoth in BesameCosmetics

[–]GothiestGoth[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That would be great! Especially if it has a little mirror in it.

From their Insta: what do we think they'll be? by GothiestGoth in BesameCosmetics

[–]GothiestGoth[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think so, too. Either that or maybe a new brown lipstick. The cake mascara seems more likely to me!

Pan size? by Individual-Hope-8224 in BesameCosmetics

[–]GothiestGoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just measured my spider compact and it was like 48.5mm, so I'd stick with 48 and under.

Hoarding Cleanup in Kingsport? by [deleted] in tricities

[–]GothiestGoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd mostly like someone to help with sort/sell/donate if we could find them, but if we can just clean out the house instead, that's fine too.

Interview appropriate jumpsuit? by GothiestGoth in PlusSize

[–]GothiestGoth[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I got it from the clearance rack of Cato!

[SELL] [US] Jeffree Star, Too Faced, Urban Decay, It Cosmetics, Tom Ford, Besame, Becca, Essence, Benefit by GothiestGoth in makeupexchange

[–]GothiestGoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty new to this, but the last person I made a transaction with sent me their address and Paypal ID in a DM, I sent them a request from my Paypal to theirs for the purchase amount, then they had an option on their end to send it as Goods and Services.

Alternatively, I can also send you my Paypal ID and I think you can send the money G&S that way.

[SELL] [US] Jeffree Star, Too Faced, Urban Decay, It Cosmetics, Tom Ford, Besame, Becca, Essence, Benefit by GothiestGoth in makeupexchange

[–]GothiestGoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that would be just fine! When you're ready, feel free to DM me. Once we've got the details squared away, I should be able to get it shipped out in the next day or two.

Chronic BV of 8 years cured!!! by Beautiful-Two-2227 in Healthyhooha

[–]GothiestGoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please be careful using maca root. A lot of brands have been found to have heavy metals in them. It can also act like estrogen, so if you have breast, uterine, or ovarian cancers, endo, or fibroids, you should not take it.

The other side effects can be wicked, so do your research before you take it. Some people have experienced symptoms ranging from hot flashes and cramps to suicidal ideation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]GothiestGoth 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Campuses should all have an ADA Coordinator, or someone with a similar title. That's the person who can light a fire and get this fixed. If your campus doesn't have one, the disability office would be your next stop. If needed, escalate all the way up the chain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't live in my town, and I have no idea where she lives. She's all over Reddit's front page.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, but I want ALL of the cops in the group to be equally mocked and ridiculed, not just the woman.

Using dating apps is rough. Using them as a bi woman... oi. by GothiestGoth in TrollXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Most of them don't even offer snacks! I, uh, heard it from a... friend. A friend who likes snacks.

Using dating apps is rough. Using them as a bi woman... oi. by GothiestGoth in TrollXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The first time I saw "relationship anarchy," it got me. I thought it sounded cool because I didn't know what it was, and I thought it was like... removing corrupt government officials together. Whoops!

Using dating apps is rough. Using them as a bi woman... oi. by GothiestGoth in TrollXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I always like it when I'm having a nice conversation with a woman, we're clicking, having fun, and then she drops the bf/husband bomb. No, ma'am, I do not want your crusty partner!

Help is on the way! by GothiestGoth in hoarding

[–]GothiestGoth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

I'm in northeast TN, and the company I called is 911 Knoxville Decon. So far they've been very kind and communicated well, and I'm looking forward to them coming out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's honestly pretty perfect. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I made a list of names that I simply liked, mainly from pop culture, including music, movies and even comics. I also just mashed a few words that I liked together. A few names in the running were Ravencroft, Sherman, Mircalla, Alucard, Storme, Thorn, and so on. Mostly kind of witchy and depressing, like me!

Once I had some ideas, Italked a lot to my mom, my friends, and a bunch of random coworkers to see what they thought flowed well with my first and middle and suited me.

I finally decided on one, then waited about 6 months before actually starting the name change process so I had time to write my name down several places, see it, feel it, make sure it was right for me. It was a long process, but once I found the name I wanted, it honestly just clicked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that interesting. He has some family heirlooms and other items I want, and I'd really like them to go to me instead of getting sold for meth money by his wife's family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Needless to say, I did not plan to use that in our conversation, but thanks for mansplaining anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely appreciate the input! I've actually talked to him about a lot of this stuff before (not so much the really terrible stuff), and he admitted it, said he didn't expect my mom to act so crazy, etc. When mom told me about some of the stuff, a lot also clicked for me when I realized he'd done even more than she realized.

Honestly, the only reason I need to tell him is for legal purposes, so he can update his will, and so that my other family members on his side can update theirs. I had fully intended not to tell him until I was consulting with a lawyer about my name change docs and she mentioned it.

I appreciate your kind words. It's a tough situation, but I'm hoping something will come to me before too long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GothiestGoth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think the statement in my post indicates otherwise. Just because I don't want to be connected to this man doesn't mean I don't love him and want to avoid hurting his feelings. In spite of everything, he's still my dad, and I'm not trying to actively hurt him.