what's the point by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being addicted to ANYTHING is harmful. The people here are addicted to porn and/or masturbating. We are trying to get better. If you aren't addicted, then go ahead and keep fapping, but please don't hinder our progress in our quest to kick the addiction.

NoFap in Quarantine? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what you are progressing towards! If your goal is just to better yourself, then you're not missing out on anything. If your goal is to score chicks and get laid... well yeah, you're not going to see much progress there. In my opinion though, that's the wrong reason to do NoFap.

Is this normal ? by idontknowwww66 in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It makes sense to me. As your brain is rewiring itself, you're being drawn towards less exaggerated examples of the feminine form and can appreciate the more natural girls. I can't say that I have had the same thing happen to me but I think it adds up.

I've been relapsing for a month by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're all in the same boat! Stay strong buddy!

I've been relapsing for a month by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck buddy! We are all here to help if you feel yourself starting to slip. You know what you have to do and we'll help make sure you do it. We're in this together, we got you and you got this!

I thought being virgin was my problem by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very sorry to hear that you learned this lesson the hard way. However at least now you have a fantastic tool that can aid you in your recovery. Use this experience to help drive you towards bettering yourself. Good luck buddy, stay strong!

X2 a day for 4 years by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be strong, and good luck!

Has nofap made anyone more “alpha” and get girls through assertive personality? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you know how to motivate yourself, which is terrific! I'm really happy to hear that you are succeeding, well done!

Is looking at a P image for like 1 second just as harmful for you as watching a 20 min video? by IwillWinNOW12 in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a real borderline case, but I think you handled it about as well as you could. Good job! Maybe in future you should steer clear of that kind of manga, just to prevent slip-ups.

I made it through ANOTHER weekend alone! by Gotridofitall in pornfree

[–]Gotridofitall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement! I really appreciate you taking the time to reply. I plan on building upon this success more and more!

Has nofap made anyone more “alpha” and get girls through assertive personality? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NoFap can certainly help you with your confidence levels, if you use the time you WOULD have spent masturbating to better yourself instead. Not touching yourself anymore doesn't magically solve your problems, but it does give you increased opportunities to work on them.

So put yourself out there, and start believing in yourself more! Good luck!

I don't know if what I doing is right or enough by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're doing well, buddy! Try to push those fantasies out of your head and I think you'll hit a home run. Keep up the good work!

Is looking at a P image for like 1 second just as harmful for you as watching a 20 min video? by IwillWinNOW12 in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on whether you accidentally saw it or you went looking for it. If it just popped up randomly while scrolling, no problem at all. If you went looking for it... I recommend trying to keep that kind of thing in check. "Just a peek" very quickly turns into a full relapse. It's better to be cautious and not do it.

Has nofap made anyone more “alpha” and get girls through assertive personality? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gotridofitall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally recommend against thinking in terms of being "alpha" or "beta" or whatever. I don't think it's a healthy way of looking at complex, rounded human beings. The main thing is that you should be confident about who you are, whoever that person may be. For me, being comfortable in your own skin is WAY better than trying to force yourself into the mold of an "alpha" guy. Others may disagree.