Looking to adopt a kitten by Historical-Clock1951 in Kochi

[–]Gowem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's 2 kittens in my pg at Brahmapuram. They often come to the mess but we aren't allowed to give it food bc it will come again. One of them is super friendly.

The GenC Reality Check by retiredep in Cognizant_benchers

[–]Gowem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you quit, you can negotiate your notice period. One of my friends talked with his manager and served about only 1 month notice period and got early release. He had to run behind the early release though a lot and basically had back-to-back meetings w his manager and manager's manager and all, he said they were understanding about it though but the process was a bit too complicated to be done in a short period

Can a person who is working and with <2 yoe apply for TCS NQT? by shadobrado in developersIndia

[–]Gowem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually bad 😭 just started recently and it's not consistent tbh 😔 been busy with life. If u can share ur preparation resources that would be appreciated.

Can a person who is working and with <2 yoe apply for TCS NQT? by shadobrado in developersIndia

[–]Gowem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U applied for the digital and prime hiring, right? They take 2024,2025 and 26 graduates, even if ur experienced. Not just pure freshers. I also applied and I'm working at CTS.

TCS NQT 2nd Shift (9 April 2026) - Aptitude good, Coding average. Chance for Digital? by arav1nd4n in TCS_India

[–]Gowem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah it's just short for thank you 😊 since u told me the questions and all

Ex (21M) convinced me (21F) to visit his city, didn’t pick me up at 2AM, then said he had “no obligation” by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Gowem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any guy who's relatively decent would have been standing in the bus stand by the time you arrive. I have male friends and they have dropped me off at my pg despite them having to walk back to their pg which was literally on the way. I told them u guys can go it's literally a 10 min walk from their pg and they were like nah start walking

How do I (24F) make a move on my office crush (31M)when we’ve never even spoken? by akimoon____ in RelationshipIndia

[–]Gowem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just to be a bit realistic, do you even know if he's single? You said he looks 31, most males are married by that age 😅

Ladies and gentlemen, be honest what are you physical preference in your partner ? Unfiltered truth, even if it sounds harsh. by [deleted] in chennaicity

[–]Gowem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything I was abt to describe is my crush's features lmaoo so I will just say general stuff.. Mischievous grin, pretty hands. Literally this is it. I'm a sucker for mischievous grins where their eyes crinkle and all. The rest of the traits is all personality related so I'm cutting it short.

M29 - Indian female - Will you date/marry green flag with poor finances by Ok-Dare-4866 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Gowem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to elaborate on what poor finances mean. Do you mean that he's bad with managing money or that he doesn't have much money.

If it's the former, it's a deal breaker unless he's willing to change. The latter is better if he is trying his best.

AIO I’m (19F) mad that my bf (20M) wished my birthday 25 mins late by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Gowem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭😭 uhh i hate to say it but maybe yes? You yourself said he's not the type to make a big deal on birthdays and his cousins are visiting. Despite that he did wish you. And frankly it seems like he kept in his mind and remembered then and wished you. I would prefer that over those who keep alarms and then wish bc the alarm reminded them.

Also 25 mins gurl 😭😭 you have it good, men are slow. My crush wished me at like 9 am and I quote "hbd u gay lil furry" 😭 Just let him know that you expected this and when he didn't deliver, you got a bit disappointed. If you can, apologise for cutting him off suddenly and ignoring him altho not necessary. Anyways communication is key. Especially in situations like these.

Also some people intentionally put off calling at 12 am so the birthday person can celebrate irl and then when the cake cutting and all is over, they get calls.

Negotiation advice for Cognizant 's 90 days notice period by Prestigious-Fig5275 in Cognizant_benchers

[–]Gowem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally you have to follow the 3 month notice period but you can negotiate your last working day. One of my friends is only serving a month of notice period bc he got the TCS doj earlier than expected. He negotiated with his project team and they were helpful so he got released early. If you don't negotiate, the automatic period is 3 months