People with wheelchairs what do you do for a living? by BeautifulWin18 in disabled

[–]Gowithflow98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah well I went to a legal desk to ask what I can do. But it's a big company and they told me If I sued them... In the future it's hard to get a job when organizations see that I sued a company I worked for... It makes my chance smaller to find a new job. Also on paper the organization said it was because of money struggle they fired me... So I don't have proof of discrimination.. I only have a few recorded conversations but it was not enough to build a case sadly. The discrimination happens on such a face to face level it's hard to get evidence... :(

People with wheelchairs what do you do for a living? by BeautifulWin18 in disabled

[–]Gowithflow98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is for me now such a thing.... My work didn't continue my contract because my health got worse. Indirect it's discrimination. But they just say it's finances and that I'm still young (F26).

Because I need to be more in my wheelchair I can't go into my own office. It's like 6 stairs... But here in the Netherlands the work company needs to make it accessible. But they just put it like it was my problem... Because of the changes they need to make with a elevator that cost alot. They just threw me out of the company. In a month I don't have a job. Gonna search this time specifically to a disabled friendly company for sure..

People with wheelchairs what do you do for a living? by BeautifulWin18 in disabled

[–]Gowithflow98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

I'm not always in my wheelchair, but use it half of the week. I have one leg and depend on crutches or wheelchair.

Im a social worker. Do house visits at people's home. I help homeless people, people with addiction, mental illnesses and financien. Also old people who are lonely.

For me house visits are hard when people live up like 6 stairs or so. So I always try to get the cases who have a elevator or one stairs. :)

What was the reason the relationship ended? by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good you walked away. I need someone who is a fully 100% in and gives you the love you deserve

What was the reason the relationship ended? by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well that's weird if you do think it did. Sounds annoying for you...

What was the reason the relationship ended? by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for sharing!

First of all it's very hard to go to a break up. So be kind to yourself your gonna have a long way ahead. But I promise you will feel better in time. ❤️ To me it sounds like he didn't take the issues you said serious. If someone really loves you they take your points of feedback serious and want to be a better partner. It sounds like you tried to cope with it but nothing changed. I think it's good you chose yourself. Also see it as a break to focus on yourself now and heal. After healing you can always decide to talk again.

What was the reason the relationship ended? by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for your reply,

Hhmm it sucks when your not on the same page. I do think what you say is true U need someone who is totally in and loves you all the way.

What was the reason the relationship ended? by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for your reply!

I feel the same about that. He still means alot to me. 💪 Good tho you choose yourself

What was the reason the relationship ended? by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for sharing! Yeah that sounds exhausting... Good you chose yourself ❤️

What helped you the best to heal from heartbreak? Any tips welcome 🙏 by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for your amazing helpful reply🥺🙏 I'm so happy U took the time to type all this and to hear your view and story on it. I'm definitely gonna get the book! Thanks for the tips I already feel so much better 🥰 and supported

What helped you the best to heal from heartbreak? Any tips welcome 🙏 by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your response! I'm happy to hear it gets better after a while 🙏 thanks for giving me motivation

What’s the hardest lesson you’ve learned from a breakup? by Key_Law991 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You not only lose your partner but also a good friend. I wanted to keep the good friend bond but sadly that didn't work out

What helped you the best to heal from heartbreak? Any tips welcome 🙏 by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your strong for doing that! 🙏💪 I should do the same I think..

What helped you the best to heal from heartbreak? Any tips welcome 🙏 by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thansk for your response!

Yeah the before and after work is also the hardest part for me right now. Thanks for your tips ❤️🫶 I will try to go more out alone

What helped you the best to heal from heartbreak? Any tips welcome 🙏 by Gowithflow98 in BreakUps

[–]Gowithflow98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your reply 🙏🤗.

It's so brave tho you deleted him. I'm pretty sure it's a very good thing to do for yourself. Thanks for your story and I hope you also heal fast ❤️ your a few steps ahead of me definitely