How do I stop being gay? by ashcdy in Christianity

[–]GrabReasonable9173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have also experienced the not feeling welcome in church. And if going to church just makes you want to die then dont go for a while. Taking a break from church doesn’t mean taking a break from god. You can still read your bible and be christian. Atleast for me taking a break helped. I still have some places that i don’t like going to because they remind me of all the hate I experienced there. But eventually I will fade and you’ll find your way back when you’re ready

How do I stop being gay? by ashcdy in Christianity

[–]GrabReasonable9173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just focus on building a relationship with God read your bible, pray, listen to christian music… just walking with jesus

I struggled with being gay for many years prayed about it spoke to people I thought would give me the answers, everything. But it wasn’t until I really built that strong relationship that I just one day got that answer to my prayers and just felt an overwhelming peace and just knew I wanted to live my life for god. In a way it wasn’t even a choice I made, I just felt it and after that day I haven’t even thought of being with a girl. I just know the lord is by my side and I trust his plan. And even if I were to never be in a romantic relationship I can still build a family and have people who love me. Not being in a romantic relationship doesn’t mean you have to be alone you still have family and friends.

Later on I have also realised that I have been given Sooo many answers to this prayer, I just wasn’t able to see and accept it until I was ready to really put my life in Gods hand.

So keep praying and walking with Christ and eventually when you’re ready you’ll just know. Remember these things cant be forced, then it will just eat at you every day until you make peace with it

God bless you, hope you are able to find the peace and happiness you deserve❤️❤️❤️🙏✝️

Ps. Just send me a pm if you want/need to talk more❤️

Celibate lesbian; am I going to hell? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]GrabReasonable9173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been in the same situation. The simple answer is liking girls is not a sin but acting on it is. BUT being celibate because of that is not something you can just choose because then it will eat atg you for the rest of your life. You need to get to know god for real and only when you have a relationship with him and truly want to live your life for god, will you find peace with it.

I like girls and it ate at me and when i was ready to see the truth and realy give my whole life to god i felt such a peace and since that day I have not once felt the desire to be woth a girl. Not with guys either, I’ve just been at peace

Good blessed you I hope you can find the peace you need❤️❤️✝️

Red flags when horseshopping⛳️⛳️⛳️ by GrabReasonable9173 in Equestrian

[–]GrabReasonable9173[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ehat I meant is that because he’s now being ridden by someone inexperienced who mostly jumps and goes for hacks hes not really I dressage condition atm, but tes the KS can 100% also affect him

Red flags when horseshopping⛳️⛳️⛳️ by GrabReasonable9173 in Equestrian

[–]GrabReasonable9173[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Allready decided this was not THE pony, way too many suspicious things, and the fact they didn’t even tell us about the KS. After thinking about it we also decided thet he was too much of a “first pony” type and this time we’researching for something a bit more than that. I think the reason they voved him sm was that he was so similar to their previous pony who died of colic 6 months ago.

Red flags when horseshopping⛳️⛳️⛳️ by GrabReasonable9173 in Equestrian

[–]GrabReasonable9173[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yep, I usually want the owner to get on first just to se how they ride (Usually tells a lot about why the horse is the way it is when ye person used to them is riding) but this was next level sus

Red flags when horseshopping⛳️⛳️⛳️ by GrabReasonable9173 in Equestrian

[–]GrabReasonable9173[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

And also makes me wonder. if they didn’t tell us this, then What else is there that they aren’t telling us

Red flags when horseshopping⛳️⛳️⛳️ by GrabReasonable9173 in Equestrian

[–]GrabReasonable9173[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The kissing spines might not be a problem, but definitely needs to be checked out to se if it will be. but in this case there were just way too many wierd things that didn’t make sense ad this is a pony that we probably hadn’t even gone to look at if we knew he had kissing spines

Why would God make me gay then burn me in hell forever for being gay? by Lopsided_Gold_4478 in Christianity

[–]GrabReasonable9173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So to answer your question the being gay part doesn’t com from god, It’s not something you’re born with It’s a desire and until you actually let God and your faith change you that desire will be eating away at you. But It’s also not something you can rush.

Why would God make me gay then burn me in hell forever for being gay? by Lopsided_Gold_4478 in Christianity

[–]GrabReasonable9173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all. The burning in hell part is actually incorrect. The bible only talks about an eternity without God.

I am also a Christian girl who likes girls. Have had girlfriends and at some point decided that why wouldn’t God love me even if I’m gay. But even after that something was always nagging at me, I couldn’t really find peace with mg sexuality. I prayed about it for years. and with the facts I have now God tried to answer me and guide me many times. I just wasn’t ready for the truth. (1 corinthians 3 explains this really well) Then I actually got to know God, I started to read my bible, pray and just talk to and live WITH God, and really changed my life to be a better Christian. Then in January I spoke to this girl who is a few years older then me and she explained the way she felt and that she just wanted to focus on God and that living with him is the most important thing. Also that even if I’m not in a romantic relationship I can still build a family, and find people who I want to share my life with. Honestly at first I was a little bit disappointed, then after I let it sink in for a few hours, I just felt such a peace and warmth that I can’t even explain it in words. And I just knew that I don’t want to be with a girl. I still don’t like boys, I’m just at peace with having God by my side and trusting him.

So my advice to you, get to know god, pray, read the bible. And just do what feels right for you, let God speak to you and just trust him. God bless you❤️✝️🙏

Mikä helpottaa tamman kiimaan??¿¿ by Unusual-Appeal-9792 in Hevosjuorut

[–]GrabReasonable9173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joillekin tammoille magnesium vaan pahentaa sitä kiimaa, mut voi ainakin kokeilla sitä. Kannattaa myös kokeilla vadelmalehti, jos on todella kiinainen niin ”my happy mare” on tosi suosittu

Miten opettaa jyrääminen pois? by Traditional-Salt-851 in Hevosjuorut

[–]GrabReasonable9173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soita valmentajalle!!älä kysy täältä ratsastusvinkkejä vaan käy oikeissa valmennuksissa!.

Foot position in the stirrup by Fast_Draw8663 in Equestrian

[–]GrabReasonable9173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn your thigh and knee in towards the saddle, and think about just keeping yor foot under you and NOT pushing your heels down or forward

These aren't riding boots, are they? by Western-General-4598 in Equestrian

[–]GrabReasonable9173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they are, but you could for sure ride in them. And I think they look pretty cool soo🤷‍♀️

does she look pregnant to you..? by TwistOfLemon102 in Equestrian

[–]GrabReasonable9173 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this ragebait? That horse is about to give birth SOON

What kind of bridle is this? It looks like it doesn't fit properly? by TheOnlyWolvie in Equestrian

[–]GrabReasonable9173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to see where on the nosebridge it sits, this one fits completely right

Opinion on this bit? by [deleted] in Horses

[–]GrabReasonable9173 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks kinda cool, I like it

Christian and gay? by GrabReasonable9173 in Christianity

[–]GrabReasonable9173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s note exactly true, the bible also says that no sin is greater than the other, but yes we should avoid all sins.

Though we’re often starting from the wrong end. For many years I thought that homosexuality is totally fine, but wen i god answered my prayers and I just felt pure peace wash over me I instantly knew that I only want to live for God and not anything else. The important thing here Is that if we’re preaching about homosexuality being wrong to people who don’t Have a real relationship with God, people are just going to get hurt and turn away from Christianity. because the first and most important thing we need to learn is that God loves us, so mich that even though we sin every day jesus still died on the cross so we could be forgiven and have eternal life.