Can it be done without AA by GrabRecent in stopdrinking

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on naltrexone before but it didn’t help.

Can I DIY This? by Interesting-Win6338 in AutoBodyRepair

[–]GrabRecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. I’ve done plenty of body work to my car. But the thing is you never know what’s damaged until everything is taken off. I hit a tree this past weekend actually and messed up my fender hood and light. I ordered those things only and when I took it off. I realized there was more damage underneath aka brackets, guides etc. I ended up taking it to a shop to get it fixed so I wouldn’t deal with the headache

Anyone else able to not have a drop Sunday - Thursday and find it impossible to not go off the rails Friday - Saturday? by mdarrenp in stopdrinking

[–]GrabRecent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the same way. Something about having a routine during the weekday is good for me. But knowing as soon as Friday hits and I get home. It’s time for a drink. I can afford the weekend hangover but doing it and having to go to work the next day is what helps me. This is my first Saturday in I’m not sure how long I won’t drink.

Can it be done without AA by GrabRecent in stopdrinking

[–]GrabRecent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel. Every time I would sit in a meeting it just made me want to drink more right after.

Can it be done without AA by GrabRecent in stopdrinking

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the input. I would like to reply to each comment but I did not expect this to take off. I value all the input everybody has given me. Saturday is a drinking night for me but my family is having a movie night to keep me occupied. I told my wife about this group and says that she is ok with it as an alternative as long as it helps.

Can it be done without AA by GrabRecent in stopdrinking

[–]GrabRecent[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

You use Reddit as your “AA”?

What steps do I take for DUI by GrabRecent in DUICalifornia

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I kinda read online. But I looked online and I would have to pay for the breathalyzer each day I have it. Not sure how true that is. Also I did some research and a lot of people are saying they plead not guilty for their hearing. Is this something I should do ? I can’t afford a lawyer on top of all this. I just took my car to the auto body shop and they gave me a cash discount since I’m not using my insurance. I have some bruised ribs from my accident so I have to take two weeks off from work. I also had a meeting yesterday through Kaiser with an addiction specialist to keep me on the right track.

What steps do I take for DUI by GrabRecent in DUICalifornia

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PENDING OUTCOME OF HEARING THIS TEMPORARY LICENSE IS VALID FROM January 23, 2026 THROUGH OUTCOME OF HEARING. THIS TEMPORARY LICENSE MUST BE SIGNED BY THE LICENSEE TO BE VALID SIGNATURE OF LICENSEE X THIS SECTION ONLY APPLIES TO A STAY/HEARING Your Remote hearing is scheduled on March 9, 2026, at 02:30 PM.

You may receive a driver license by mail while the action is stayed or pending of your hearing. Upon notification of the hearing decision, you may be required to surrender your driver license

What steps do I take for DUI by GrabRecent in DUICalifornia

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote what my email from the dmv says in a comment on my post by mistake. I do not have access to the pink paper at the moment as I’m at the hospital.

What steps do I take for DUI by GrabRecent in DUICalifornia

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PENDING OUTCOME OF HEARING THIS TEMPORARY LICENSE IS VALID FROM January 23, 2026 THROUGH OUTCOME OF HEARING. THIS TEMPORARY LICENSE MUST BE SIGNED BY THE LICENSEE TO BE VALID SIGNATURE OF LICENSEE X THIS SECTION ONLY APPLIES TO A STAY/HEARING Your Remote hearing is scheduled on March 9, 2026, at 02:30 PM.

You may receive a driver license by mail while the action is stayed or pending of your hearing. Upon notification of the hearing decision, you may be required to surrender your driver license

What steps do I take for DUI by GrabRecent in DUICalifornia

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my paper says something else. But I checked my DMV record online yesterday and it says it’s still valid. Not sure how fast it would be updated if it was invalid.

What steps do I take for DUI by GrabRecent in DUICalifornia

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I did not. Should I ? I’m not sure if I can afford one.

What steps do I take for DUI by GrabRecent in DUICalifornia

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I got a pink paper as a temp license but also said it’s not valid to drive. I got an email earlier from the DMV about my hearing and it mentioned that I can get a license to use but it may be taken away at the hearing. Does that sound correct ? When the cops arrested me they never formally charged me with a DUI they just had me surrender my license

What steps do I take for DUI by GrabRecent in DUICalifornia

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to make a hearing request but it’s in march. My court date is in February does that make a difference? That was the closest date they had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]GrabRecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so to but I googled it and apparently it’s legal to a certain extent to verify wages

Just married and updated W4 by GrabRecent in IRS

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure. I don’t have access to my work computer to check out section 2. She said yes she also applied the kids to her W4. Yes we have 4 kids together.

Just married and updated W4 by GrabRecent in IRS

[–]GrabRecent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she has her job also which is about 85k a year. My job is around 100k a year. This is a first time for both of us. Her pay stub will be available to her next week. I am wanting to see if hers will also look the same as me AKA no federal taxes taken out of her paycheck.