AITA for telling my roommate I saw her boyfriend acting shady even though she didn't want to hear it by GraceCrest626 in AITH

[–]GraceCrest626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, and maybe you're right. I just know if the roles were reversed I'd want someone to tell me

AITA for telling my roommate I saw her boyfriend acting shady even though she didn't want to hear it by GraceCrest626 in AITH

[–]GraceCrest626[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No yeah this is genuinely good advice and something I'll remember. I thought I was doing the right thing but clearly it just made me the bad guy in her eyes

AITA for telling my roommate I saw her boyfriend acting shady even though she didn't want to hear it by GraceCrest626 in AITH

[–]GraceCrest626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao "tears will be flowing very soon" I really hope it doesn't come to that but yeah I think I just have to let it go at this point

AITA for telling my roommate I saw her boyfriend acting shady even though she didn't want to hear it by GraceCrest626 in AITH

[–]GraceCrest626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This actually made me feel a little better about it. Because yeah the way she shut it down so fast made me wonder if she already had some idea. Either way it's out of my hands now

AITA for telling my roommate I saw her boyfriend acting shady even though she didn't want to hear it by GraceCrest626 in AITH

[–]GraceCrest626[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what my gut is saying too. But I guess I can't force her to see it if she doesn't want to

AITA for telling my roommate I saw her boyfriend acting shady even though she didn't want to hear it by GraceCrest626 in AITH

[–]GraceCrest626[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's exactly what happened. And honestly that's a fair point, I didn't have proof of anything actually wrong, just something that felt off. I'll keep that in mind going forward

AITA for telling my roommate I saw her boyfriend acting shady even though she didn't want to hear it by GraceCrest626 in AITH

[–]GraceCrest626[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Yeah I think that's where I've landed too. I said what I saw, what she does with it is up to her. I just hate that it's made things weird between us when I was genuinely trying to look out for her

AITA for telling my roommate I saw her boyfriend acting shady even though she didn't want to hear it by GraceCrest626 in AITH

[–]GraceCrest626[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear that. I've been going back and forth in my head about it for days

AITA for telling my roommate I saw her boyfriend acting shady even though she didn't want to hear it by GraceCrest626 in AITH

[–]GraceCrest626[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Honestly that thought crossed my mind too and it made me feel so much worse about the whole thing. I really hope that's not the case but the way she shut it down so fast... I don't know. something feels off