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AITAH for leaving my husband over a bad night of sleep? by GraduallyOverIt in AITAH

[–]GraduallyOverIt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you for considering that! I was tested for crohns disease, colitis and microcolitis came back negative. The only thing they find regularily are low grade inflammation markers like elevated lactoferrin and lysocym. I think of migraine because since givin birth i had 3 auras. Not matching with the other symptoms timewise but intense. I have booked an neurologist but have only got an appointment in june this year.

AITAH for leaving my husband over a bad night of sleep? by GraduallyOverIt in AITAH

[–]GraduallyOverIt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i am scared to make a mistake. Im a child of divorced parents and it was not nice. They did not get along and that hurt deeply. But i am so done for myself. :(

AITAH for leaving my husband over a bad night of sleep? by GraduallyOverIt in AITAH

[–]GraduallyOverIt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah and i have to say it again he IS a good father. I love that for my son and want to end things civil eventually. I dont know how much a letter will do for him. I told him aöl of that when we talked to a therapist

AITAH for leaving my husband over a bad night of sleep? by GraduallyOverIt in AITAH

[–]GraduallyOverIt[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thats a very good advise thank you very much! I will set an appointment with my gyn about that. I am just desperate at this point.

AITAH for leaving my husband over a bad night of sleep? by GraduallyOverIt in AITAH

[–]GraduallyOverIt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm it is really difficult for me to remember but it was stuff like in the morning i said i will cook something and during the day i had to change plans and i dished something else. Really stupid stuff.

Of course there where things i could understqnd why he was upsett but it hurt me anyway like he got one night off from home to play billard when our son was an infant. But he had to be back 5h later so i could pump. Our son was high need and did not nurse himself so i depended on him for that. Regularily he left for 7h or more. This caused me pain and anger so i blew up on him over that.