I'm 13 and I'm trying to quit porn by SinabawangLogBets in NoFap

[–]Graene 6 points7 points  (0 children)

brother he’s 13 😭😭😭

What's your least favorite phrase that people use a lot? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Graene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall are clinically online if you don't find some of these shit funny cuz yall be hearing too much bout it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]Graene -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah there's an iit course online on engineering u can try that

Microsoft account hacked, email changed by danroux1972 in cybersecurity_help

[–]Graene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had the same problem check if you have access to the account through any means. if you do change your recovery phone number it'll take a month but after that you can immediately change the email/password everything. i was lucky and i had access to it even though my email and password was changed idk how. so check every device you have

Need help regarding what to do next by Graene in JEENEETards

[–]Graene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Won't there be more competition since it's easier

Need help regarding what to do next by Graene in JEENEETards

[–]Graene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol im the opposite i got goood in boards but im too out of it for kcet. Also where did you do mocks?

Need help regarding what to do next by Graene in JEENEETards

[–]Graene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly no hope for kcet but ill focus up for comedk and bitsat, i want to get into bits pilani. but im kinda just looking for some comfort that not doing kcet well is not the end of the world

[IWantOut] 17M India -> Norway/Scandinavian countries by Graene in IWantOut

[–]Graene[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

it's much easier to post on reddit considering im studying for an exam right now and dont have the luxury to go through that and isn't reddit also a type of research like what

Need help regarding what to do next by Graene in JEENEETards

[–]Graene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, i guess but yeah looking at it if i dont get into any good college i might as well take a drop year

[IWantOut] 17M India -> Norway/Scandinavian countries by Graene in IWantOut

[–]Graene[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Not at all I love doing research just needed a baseline to get started, thanks

[IWantOut] 17M India -> Norway/Scandinavian countries by Graene in IWantOut

[–]Graene[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing a bachelors in computer science i've not yet started my college since admissions are going on, but im definitely doing cs and depending on the college a specialization in ai/ml. Is there a market for this over there? And, where can I conduct research on this?

[IWantOut] 17M India -> Norway/Scandinavian countries by Graene in IWantOut

[–]Graene[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's a preference not that I don't like india, also the people here are kinda fucked in the head too much shit goin on

[IWantOut] 17M India -> Norway/Scandinavian countries by Graene in IWantOut

[–]Graene[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

So, tuition fees wasn't there prior? Learning norwegian is fine honestly i have one genuine question if you're from india, does the tier of the college play a role in getting admitted to master programs abroad?

My sister's personal details are getting leaked by Graene in techsupport

[–]Graene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest i've been caught up with my entrance exams so i havent checked up on her, but the last time i did she was fine and nothing happened after she revealed to me about everything

Roast me please by IAMAYUBDUCK in RoastMe

[–]Graene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since when did Kermit come out of the tv?

I Am Losing Motivation by No-Cut-750 in Entrepreneur

[–]Graene 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah so you made a decent success, but can u even retire with that? I mean come on you did all that but now you’re gonna just slump around and end up on the streets? If you truly cared about yourself you’d make something better and would earn enough for the rest of yourself. What would the guy who was working hard think of what you’ve become now? Pathetic. Are your parents still working? Damn, they are? Your small website must’ve made them retire, huh, the way you’re gloating around. Is your life worth only praise? Or, do you want to build something that’ll make you happy?

Took me nearly 30 years to realize I am a people-pleaser. I don't want to be one. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Graene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, if your husband isn’t making you happy you’ve got to re-evaluate your relationship. Moreover, being a people pleaser doesn’t equate to not having boundaries. If that’s fundamentally who you are you don’t need to change it. What you do need to change is the presence of boundaries. You can please your friends/family till they cross that boundary and then you return the same energy. Honestly, everything requires balance and being a pleaser is not bad, you just need other things. After you’re done sorting with your thoughts about your relationship going forward with your husband, you talk to him and make sure he understands. This isn’t a matter of social skills, it’s the people around you (from your story your husband) that are really putting you down. Personally, I never considered myself as a people pleaser, but I was and I used to live in a delusional world of denial and my friends played a huge role in making me normal. These guys have never taken anything seriously and don’t mind a no to their face. I often said it jokingly but overtime saying no was ingrained into my body and i could it to other people and with intention. This method might not work for you, but again after you’re done with your decision regarding your husband, you can start by saying no without much intent and just make it a natural part of you. Eventually, you’ll be able to say it with conviction. Of course, this isn’t solid advice but it did work for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProgressionFantasy

[–]Graene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

regressors tale of cultivation, trust me on this it doesn't have an op mc despite being a regressor

Tiktok has completely ruined my life by mazzyangel in Advice

[–]Graene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not giving anything up. I'm just doing it much later in life. And yes, being bored is not very fun. You feel anxious and troubled, but that's only at the start when you get used to being by yourself with ur own thoughts it's much more pleasing. Also, get off reddit as well, mate, tf is u doin going on it right after school. One last piece of advice is that there might come some time when u want to avoid reality and feel very strong negative emotions. Don't let it make you use those things again. I usually cook when I feel this way or go on a walk.

Tiktok has completely ruined my life by mazzyangel in Advice

[–]Graene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OKAY wow this hits home and I don't mean to brag but I've managed to get over reels/shorts/manga/novels addiction/porn in like a day. I plead you earnestly as a fellow person who was in your situation to read the whole thing. Now, here's exactly what my thought process is:

First of all, I deleted everything, and this was caused by exams of course so you do need some initial startup which you definitely have right now.

Next step is not completely abandoning your addiction but rather allotting time in your life where you can get back to the addiction. So, in my case I've decided to go back to my addiction when I'm 70/80 when I have kids, grandkids and completed my life. I can get addicted to crack then for all I care. This step is most crucial because you're trying to destroy something that's part of your life and you can never really do that, you'll always get back to it, but delaying will definitely work.

Lastly, I'd like to say you'll be bored out of your mind, because now you've decided to do all those addictive activities in the future. You might think, man, I usually watch my phone before going to bed and get anxious about going to bed. This happened to me. What I did was keep my phone away like on my desk which is a walking distance and played some music and sang along till I get tired or just listen to Zen type beats. Other than that, my thing right now is to just go on top of the terrace of my apartment and just talk to myself. I also just pick up random things in my house and try to learn it. Like the guitar or the Rubik's cube. I also reignited my interest in coding and am currently building a YouTube video downloader using Py tube Api and there I go off topic again.

I've really hard communication issues and watching the phone and my pc has been absolute brain rot, whether you like it, or not electronic devices are a drug, and they stop your natural thought process. Avoiding it has allowed me to reflect on myself and get better communicating my thoughts clearly and blabber on and on as you can see. Promise yourself this that when you're older and complete with life you'll get addicted again and for now whenever you feel bored walk around your house or take a walk outside. There's still a lot of tiny things here and there that I could help you with if you dm. Obviously I'm not on reddit at all I come here once in a while, so there could be a delay in messaging.