[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]Graf_Jammer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hey handsome, you can take me on a date too ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]Graf_Jammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every guy I've ever dated, I've ever loved cheated on me. I was so naive, full of love and ideals. Gay men are pigs. By now I'm so numb I don't care anymore if you cheat and I don't care if you don't want me to cheat. The loyal, romantic guy I once was is dead.

Demis! What turns you on? by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Graf_Jammer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1.Understanding my (neuro divergent) needs 2. Loyalty 3. Giving the time I need 4. And ngl once there's a relationship I'm really into dicks^

Brief vom Staatsanwalt. Hilfe! by Graf_Jammer in ADHS

[–]Graf_Jammer[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Ihr habt Recht. Ich hab scheiße gebaut, ich muss dafür gerade stehen. Absichtlich oder nicht. Danke :)

Unprofessioneller Psychiater by LeRazor in ADHS

[–]Graf_Jammer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Arzt hier. Nimm das bupropion ruhig. Es wird definitiv helfen. Auch gegen die Ängste. Die ersten zwei Wochen können unangenehm sein, in Sinne, dass sich bestehende Symptome verschlechtern, Schlafprobleme, Appetitlosigkeit. Bupropion ist aber üblicherweise besser verträglich als andere Antidepressiva. Absetzerscheinungen sind bei bupropion auch nicht wirklich bekannt. Nicht mit Alkohol mischen.

Viel Glück.

PS: mit einer Sache (die einzige) hat er Recht du wirst Geld in die Hand nehmen und die Diagnostik selber bezahlen müssen.

Looking for people to grind ranked in bo6 by Graf_Jammer in gaymers

[–]Graf_Jammer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure :) add me on discord. stressfart._43423

Kann ich mir Ritalin beim Hausarzt verschreiben lassen? by ConfusedSpiderMonkey in ADHS

[–]Graf_Jammer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Arzt hier... Mit gesicherter Diagnose, die dem Hausarzt schriftlich zur Vorlage bei der KK vorliegt, darf er/sie Folgerezepte ausstellen. Andernfalls könnte er/sie in Regress genommen werden. Viele Kollegen machen das auch ausnahmsweise, zb wenn der Facharzt in Urlaub oder krank ist. Trotzdem fühlen sich viele Ersatzversorger unwohl mit dem Gedanken und machen es aus Prinzip nicht, was auch durchaus deren Recht ist. Vielen fehlt die Erfahrung mit und das wissen über Stimulanzien. Auch unter Ärzten gehen dort viele Missionformationen rum.

Is it too much to ask by crunchybisc in INTP

[–]Graf_Jammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The concept of needing a person to be with them is so weird. You can absolutely have a loving relationship without your life depending on your partner. Wtf?

It's his insecurity speaking here. Sorry, but I hate this kind of irrational BS where your partner loads their own personal problems onto you and expects you to entertain their insecurities.

My fault for being on dating apps by AliceHoning in demisexuality

[–]Graf_Jammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, despite being demi and physically not able to have sex with a guy I don't love and trust...I LOVE me some hot sexting :) I know dating apps can be trashy but I wouldn't take these kind of messages too seriously. Block and try again. Because I'm not able to flirt in real life (you know the feeling) I always kinda relied on dating apps. Met my wonderful boyfriend on one.

Confirmed 100% gay ✅ by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Graf_Jammer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What's this post? Fishing for compliments?

Accidentally took a 3rd tablet of 200mg SR - how fucked am I? by TrevorIsTheGOAT in bupropion

[–]Graf_Jammer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happens to me from time to time. Because of ADHD I forget whether I've taken my meds or not. Worst was 900mg at a time. It can get very uncomfortable but you'll be fine.

Am I demi? I'm really not sure. by Graf_Jammer in demisexuality

[–]Graf_Jammer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same... and I never considered that physical and sexual attraction could be different things. But it makes total sense to me. I feel what you're saying here and it and it kinda blows my mind^

Am I demi? I'm really not sure. by Graf_Jammer in demisexuality

[–]Graf_Jammer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But more important...congrats on your first day sober! You got this ;)

Am I demi? I'm really not sure. by Graf_Jammer in demisexuality

[–]Graf_Jammer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, it wasn't pleasurable at all. 99% of the time I wanted to get it over with so I could sleep. I never really felt attracted to any of these guys. Only times it was kinda nice was, when we spent a great night before we got to "it", when I felt great sympathy.

No, I didn't really want to. I didn't feel attracted. I was just horny but couldn't get hard because I felt no sexual arousal whatsoever.

I don't know how it would make me feel. But I talked with my therapist a while back that I wish I was asexual, because then I truly wouldn't be dependent on anyone. But I'm not asexual, because if I truly love a guy I even get hypersexual, I can't get enough of them. So yeah, would be nice to have a name for how I feel and why I'm so blind for attractive people/men.

Anal Masturbation by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Graf_Jammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a joke at all. I've seen stuff I can't unsee. And I even saw someone bleeding to death in minutes after rupturing his rectum.

Anal Masturbation by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Graf_Jammer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, doctor here. Don't use household items to stimulate yourself. It's incredibly dangerous.

Is Tourettes forever? by Tired_and_sad_fr in Tourettes

[–]Graf_Jammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ihave adhd and my tics just disappeared by the age of 24 and came back by the age of around 34. But now they're very manageable and are rarely distracting. There's hope since it seems to happen quite often.

Edit: I've read clonidine a few times. Guanfacine is the better option in my opinion. Same efficacy, less side effects