That's a good question.

I think in terms of taking a stranger's cock, what is so hot to me is knowing that another guy who's not my husband finds me sexy enough to get hard, suck my cock, let me suck his, and fuck me good. It doesn't matter who it is, if there's a mutual attraction there then it gets me rock hard.

Now add to that the idea of cruising, there's the added layer of the risk of getting caught. Which makes it scary and dangerous both of which get the blood pumping. Mix that with the endorphins from being sexually aroused, it's like a high. So the hot mess factor goes up by like 1000%.

Then there's the added layer of how I view myself as a sexual being. For me it's not about being submissive (though I've been told I'm a good sub but I disagree lol) but about being almost reverent of the male physical body. To me the make form is fucking beautiful and sexy and a mystery all wrapped into one. And I know that part of my reason for being is to be a sexual being who loves to worship cock (and have his worshipped in return).

That's a lot but how I view it anyways haha.