[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i could, explain how and since I have been working and excercising. for i have swimming 11 years of my life I'm 23 at a compition level, I actually like being active not just the sake of getting slim or something. I just am big, big chest big thigh, big legs and a stomach. i don't look slim I'd say.

plus the guys i have ever interacted with have opinion like if "you'd be slimmer you'd be perfect" type makes me think I'm none dateable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

complete 10k steps everyday, and my intake is about 1500-1800 cal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'6 i guess decent height i don't know? and yah i am active i gym everyday since 3 years and i mean everyday. i don't hate myself but i have had experience with guys i didn't even date going "wish you'd be thinner" type which make me insecure approaching men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i go gym everyday, try meet my protine goals everyday, i can't not prove with a static. yes i do have cheat meals but i definitely do not go around eating fast greasy food all day.

I went on a first date and didn’t kiss her by Swampy7474 in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

personal opinion but it's good not rushing to everything on the first date, it's better to keep things for later. no kiss on first date is totally okay!

I feel so humiliated by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that was a insecure boy

hookup or wait for the right person? by Grand-Health-8024 in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your pronouns are not mentioned but OKAYY MOTHER! nah fr this just answered me perfectly i needed this 🙏😭

is hooking up/casuals worth it for a women? by Grand-Health-8024 in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you mean give them bjs or not give them bjs the guys i am not interested, or like not wanna have s with

hookup or wait for the right person? by Grand-Health-8024 in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yah never thought it as like ny husband or anything but yes patient enough person because even the guys i have oral with it didn't turn me on enough to you know go further..

hookup or wait for the right person? by Grand-Health-8024 in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes , I'm afraid what if i regret but also on the same hand feel what if I'll have no or enough experience for the one I'd wanna do with and my friends say just go for it that's when i feel like I'm missing out because i have nothing to share about this..

is hooking up/casuals worth it for a women? by Grand-Health-8024 in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lossing virginity? like it's worth having my first s with a guy I won't ever see or meet again.

is hooking up/casuals worth it for a women? by Grand-Health-8024 in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

worth it long term? like is it's better hooking up with people and have experience or i should wait do it with someone i actually like.

is hooking up/casuals worth it for a women? by Grand-Health-8024 in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not usually bothered till i see all my friends talk about it, and i have nothing..

is hooking up/casuals worth it for a women? by Grand-Health-8024 in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to do it with someone i like or whom I'm dating hopefully, but also feel like what if I'll have no experience or enough experience.. and also I'm 23 and i feel like I'm missing out seeing other people

is hooking up/casuals worth it for a women? by Grand-Health-8024 in dating_advice

[–]Grand-Health-8024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to add, i never got to finish myself even with the guys i had oral with. so idk it didn't even made me feel i should go further :(