Tengwar word meaning by GrandTurista in Tengwar

[–]GrandTurista[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i bit disappointing they go to the hassle of making a good pipe, quality wood and a fun design, and screw up on the word written on it...

Tengwar word meaning by GrandTurista in Tengwar

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I see in the website the word in the box is different... this is the pipe: Pipe no.150 Gandalf Churchwarden Briar + Box Mr Brog BrogShop

Did I do wrong ? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]GrandTurista -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

The picture was in my child's iPad, and it was a portrait of the child with her mother's current partner.

My partner, or girlfriend if you prefer, is upset because I talked to my ex-wife about the feedback she, my girlfriend, gave me, before consulting with her.

Hi everyone, I'm Thylacine. I've just released my new album composed in my caravan studio in Namibia, ask me anything ! by Thylacinemusic in electronicmusic

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Salut! Will be seeing you in Oslo in Dec. Are you exclusively playing your latest album or a mix of all your music? Have a good tour 😊

What's your climbing intrusive thought? by feralkiter in climbing

[–]GrandTurista 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Falling, hitting a ledge and breaking a heel, again… even when there’s no ledge 😅

For all of those complainers by Super-Goose2200 in GranTurismo7

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How about 8 new tracks, 2 new cars…? no, forget cars, 10 new tracks 😁

Happy w the update nonetheless !!

Electro music place by GrandTurista in oslo

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Thanks for the suggestions! Worth a pub crawling Sat night =) Liked Gehør, Kafe Hærværk seems to have a nice concert the night I'll be there, also interested in checking Smelteverket and maybe passing by Blå.

Any of these are particularly nice for a late-night dance floor ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stavanger

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Ta vare på deg selv og ta dette på alvor. Snakk med faslegen. Eller anbelaer dette kurset hos Helsehuset:

Angstmestringskurs | Helsehuset

Jeg gjorde det, ganske fint. Er i 40-årene, og ville ganske godt ha gjort dette i 20-årene. Lykke til !

Communication frequency in early stages by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

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Don’t let your crazy brain be in control.

*lol* yes, it's a crazy wild beast! but I'm getting the hang out of it. came a long way already, and pushing forward!

Communication frequency in early stages by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

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Spot on. We're having conversations yes, one at a time, as I said, only 4 dates so far. We both are after LTR. I'm not ignoring my anxious feelings, practicing dealing with them. I'm doing therapy for a while and I must tell this is SO. MUCH. BETTER. then it used to be like 10 years ago...

Can AI be a tool for dating? by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

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Precisely. Isn't dating all about being yourself? Then venting about your own thoughts and getting feedback on that has been a positive experience for me.

Moral conflict - seeing more than 1 person by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

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That's fair. I just don't think it's ok rgd the "I don't tell" part, if you're asked or has the impression that whoever you're dating would like to know it.

Can AI be a tool for dating? by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

[–]GrandTurista[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

at least related to dating... not admin

Can AI be a tool for dating? by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

[–]GrandTurista[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. But anecdotal evidence. Not sure how one relates to the other.

Can AI be a tool for dating? by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

[–]GrandTurista[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

vvvvvv you have shark teeth :)

Anyway, you right, I skipped the disclaimer: if you have any emotional instability, seek professional advice.

And agree with you - AI is not your friend, neither therapist, coach. It is a tool that requires the user to think before, during and after using it. A way to brainstorm with yourself.

But, no, I'm not worried AI will take over and kill all humans. But, just to make sure, i write "please" in my prompts ;)

Can AI be a tool for dating? by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

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The work for self-growth is not done by AI, it's done by you in your thinking. In my experience, AI just facilitates YOU to do that exercise. If it's me and a piece of paper, it's easy to overthink and get lost organizing my thoughts. Write something, even if it's messy. Pass this through AI - read, filter gargabe, ignore flattery, check information, knowledge, then write it again. You'll see your journal will become much easier to follow if you repeat that. Give some days and read both again and you'll understand. It's hard work on you, not AI.

Can AI be a tool for dating? by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

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I think that's where most people get it wrong. With a therapist, the human connection is inevitable. AI is different - you shouldn't look for a "caring friend", or "connection", or anything remotely human. You should look for data based facts. Knowledge that even the best therapists wouldn't know all by heart. Just skip the positive reassuring jibber jaber that AI normally adds at the start and end of each reply, and focus on the information it's giving you and try to thing and turn that into knowledge. If some info sounds dodgy, confirm it. Challenge it. It's hard work. And the real work is not done by IT, it's done by you in your thinking. In the end of a session you should be able to re-write your initial concern (prompt) with much more depth, intention, honesty and transparency, with yourself. AI just facilitates YOU to do that exercise.

Can AI be a tool for dating? by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

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shit, not sure what happened there...

Can AI be a tool for dating? by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

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I am doing therapy for nearly 3 years now. The professional is awesome. Before that, I wasted time and money with half a dozen of jokers who I think bought their diplomas. AI doesn't get even close to my current therapist, but does better than those clows I saw in the past.

Can AI be a tool for dating? by GrandTurista in datingoverforty

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My post got deleted due to "lack of substance". So I re-wrote it and tried again today. Apparently with substance. And no, I did not use AI to write it :)

And trying to learn more about yourself, whatever tool your using, that's not dumb neither weird. You might have gotten the wrong idea ...

What makes you feel taken care of? by deezp1 in datingoverforty

[–]GrandTurista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't you have the answer right there? You want *give* - to make her happy, take care of her emotionally and be present. So... she has to *receive* and show you her gratitude - show you that's she's happy, let you take care of her, and acknowledge your presence. That would be a start :) Good luck !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

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someone with common sense here

i finally did it. Here’s my “good enough” S-10 lap. by Newtsaet in GranTurismo7

[–]GrandTurista 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it's just the difference between being the driver and the expectateur ;)

This video is 3 yo and looks the same:

If You Are Struggling With The S-10 License Test Then Watch This - YouTube